yah im integrated into western culture. ive seen to many disney princess movies. wtf.. i dont get along w/ my mom to well. but no f-ing way would my mother in law be my “new” mom. cultural crap.
i told my parents if they ever sold our house i would never talk to them again ( i wanna redo the kitchen cus my dad wont) (its gonna be my gift to my mom, once i get a job!!)
my cousin said she was was talking to her friend in the bathroom at school *(in pakistan) and they mentioned "mera ghar " or something. n the masi in the bathroom was like larki ka asli ghar to susral ki sath ho tha hai. lol
verizon- you interested in my cousin. she cooks, she cleans, she helped raise her lil sister, she listens to ppl, is gori, “tall” , she doesnt talk back, shes “pyari” ( lol)
Mr. Verizon, sub se pehle apnay dimaag ka ilaaj karwao. And what Islam have you been practicing???? In Islam you may be allowed to marry upto four times but there are reasons behind that. Marriage upto 4 times is not allowed to make your life simple and happy. It is about mutual respect and equality. Show some respect towards women as i am sure you have a mom and sisters.
Your home is the only home you'll ever treat as home
Your parents are your only mother and father
Only your real brother can be your brother
Only your real sister can be your sister
DD that discourages me a whollllllle lot :D Not that I have the tiniest shred of motivation anyway.
I think it takes a good while before your husbands house really starts to feel like your own. If you are living with a whole lot of in-laws it probably takes even longer.
sara..your mother is 100% right...a woman is ultimaely owned by her husband..that's is how she is recognized..Mrs XYZ..and frankly thats her real home too..its just lesbos who dont believe in this..
wtf!! owned by her husband… now if you could trade wives, itd sound like slavery to me..
no wonder my khala doesnt wanna move here w/ her lil daughters.. they;ll end up thinking like me.
is it possible that your mom is just trying to lessen the shock that you will have when you move in with your in-laws, by saying all that? Sort of lubricating your mind into accepting something that is most times unavoidable?
it all boils down to simply a way for your mom to tell you that you will leave her when you get married.. and i knw most ppl take this "leaving" as in "never come back again nor tell us what the hell are you upto".. but believe me.. once i get married.. i am making sure i pay my respects and treat my wife's mother the same way i treat my mom.. coz i want my kids to know both the families and not just their chacha's and taya's..
My dad hasn't been like that and due to that I don't know much about my mom's side of family.. so i feel it now.. i feel like knowing them but i guess its just too hard now.. distance and more distance.. I dont' want my kids to be like that and IF I WANT MY WIFE TO RESPECT MY MOM .. I HAVE TO SHOW HER HOW MUCH I RESPECT AND CARE ABOUT HER FAMILY... no magic here just simple rule.. straight forward..
