Without going into details, I want to get something for my fiancee/gf (Sorry if I am using those terms interchangeably, its complicated so I won’t bother explaining). I was thinking getting jewelry but since I am not in the same country she is in, that is kind of out of the question. I was thinking in the 1k range, and I am at a lost of what to get. I was thinking clothing but I don’t know of any good site. She really needs a car, but I think that’s too spontaneous…Guys, what have you or would you get your girl and girls what would you expect from a guy whose messed up, as in delayed marriage. Sorry if this post is vague or stupid in anway; I just want to make it up to her somehow, anyhow.
Re: What kind of gift would you want from your significant other if they messed up
errr i'd want an honest/sincere apology and an explanation from my guy if/when he messes up. gifts are mere band-aids and a distraction from the real issue(s).
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^ agreed.
ditto to ehl.
seeking solace in material things is not the solution to any problem.
talk it out, apologize and make a sincere try at not repeating the mistake.
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Maybe write her a handwritten letter apologising, it'd be a sweet gesture and you'd get to apologise too.
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An apology.
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An apology.
Would it cost less than 1k?
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I agree with the others.
If you need to talk things out with her, then spend the money to go see her in person, apologize, and try to work things out and renew your commitment to a future together.
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Depends on the units.
1 :k:
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Would it cost less than 1k?
It should cost less than 1k cents, as long as he doesn't make the long distance call too long.
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I would get her a playstation. So both me and her could play mario kart
Re: What kind of gift would you want from your significant other if they messed up
I would get her a playstation. So both me and her could play mario kart
If you get a Playstation to play Mario Kart, then you'd be in even more trouble.
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damn just realized 
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Your story is complicated b/c you can’t keep your facts straight! A month ago you wrote that your fiancé works in the DC metro area and lives right next to her work. Now all of a sudden she’s in a different country?! 
I know you’re in the U.S. So your fiancé wasn’t willing to drive an hour to DC suburbs but moved out of the country?! D@mn!
That being said…stop being so stupid with your money. You’re 29. Given that you can’t afford a house in the DC metro area, you’re clearly not rich. Even mentioning the car is ridiculous. Setting a budget of $1,000 just b/c she’s upset is stupid on your part. I’m sure she’s pissed that you’re delaying the wedding for whatever reason…but as long as she’s choosing to continue staying in this relationship, she’ll get over it. If she’s in a different country, send her a e-mail or talking to her on the phone or video chat. But thinking of spending $1,000 isn’t the way to solve this. It also sets a expectation on her part that whenever you do something to piss her off, you’re gonna drop $1,000 or something similar. Again, unless you can sustain that…which I don’t think you can based on what you’ve written in previous posts…don’t set that expectation.
And if you’re just dying to spend around $1,000…then I agree with the others advising that you get a plane ticket and visit her in person.
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An apology. But it should come with a sincere effort not to repeat the offense, otherwise it becomes meaningless.
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Without going into details, I want to get something for my fiancee/gf (**Sorry **if I am using those terms interchangeably, its complicated so I won't bother explaining). I was thinking getting jewelry but since I am not in the same country she is in, that is kind of out of the question. I was thinking in the 1k range, and I am at a lost of what to get. I was thinking clothing but I don't know of any good site. She really needs a car, but I think that's too spontaneous...Guys, what have you or would you get your girl and girls what would you expect from a guy whose messed up, as in delayed marriage. **Sorry **if this post is vague or stupid in anway; I just want to make it up to her somehow, anyhow.
Sorry hum sai na karoo, uss sai karoo. itna sorry uss sai kia hota tu aaj post kerney k zarorat na parhtee
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Good catch. :k You are the mod take appropriate action:mad:
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Good catch.
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Honesty! A Sincere n Hones apology. Money n gifts r nothing.