what is your gher ka OSOOL (principle)?

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apple_blossom January 9, 2012, 9:30am 1

1-share 3 gher k osool which you follow strickly and want other to follow as well :@

*anything for eg: you keep your home dry,always buy organic food etc etc…

Mods: can you make it a sticky

i have made my gher ka osool is no khana/snacks after 10:30pm and i keep an eye on my husband to rook sakon him from eating anythng from fridge

Eshal_Raza January 9, 2012, 9:37am 2

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You are such a Hitler

apple_blossom January 9, 2012, 9:40am 3

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^ its not like that.. its actually not a healthy way ... i care about his health :)

Gaia January 9, 2012, 12:54pm 4

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I like the not eating after 10PM it's good for your health.

okay some of ours:

Dinner time is family time (so everyone MUST eat together, otherwise Mommy is not happy)
No shoes in the house (we actually have signs up 'please remove your shoes' which I think is a little weird, but works)
Prayer room is always ready and clean (with dupetta's, Quran's, and janimaaz)

KKF January 9, 2012, 1:03pm 5

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**RULES:

*-if you create a mess you are responsible to clean it
-we must eat dinner Mon-Fri and lunch on weekends together unless there is a genuine reason for not doing so.
-whoever is present in the house at any namaaz time, we must do it together in jamaa'at.*

and it's working! :)**

ninja_hattori January 9, 2012, 1:25pm 6

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bahot serious hogaye aap to ghar ke rules bataane me warna koi aisa sawal hai jiska aapne seriously jawab diya

KKF January 9, 2012, 1:29pm 7

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**lol…kabhii kabhii ‘clown’ bhii ro paRtaa hai kiuN k:

**naGhme be_taab haiN taaroN se nikalne ke liye!

ninja_hattori January 9, 2012, 1:33pm 8

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fir nikalne dijiye naghmon ko

Le_Pakistan January 9, 2012, 3:34pm 9

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No mess making

ninja_hattori January 9, 2012, 4:09pm 10

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maaf karnaa behenji

apple_blossom January 10, 2012, 6:00am 11

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gaia i was thinking to do the same thing
kkf i like the namaz thing .. ALHUMDULILLAH

Chicken_Biryani January 10, 2012, 12:16pm 12

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Rule in my home :

Finish off the purana khana before toot par’ing on the newly cooked food and meetha

thats about it .. for everything else .. I made several rules but it took em less then an hour to break all of them

waleedhbk January 10, 2012, 12:32pm 13

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I Love To Break The Rules

Afia January 10, 2012, 2:30pm 14

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§ bedtime no later than 9:30 p.m.
If you have any homework or other important to-do things, you are welcome to get up as early as 3 a.m. (I’ll be at your service to wake you up) but bed time can not be changed!
I know it sounds cruel to many in this day and age but you know its been a blessing for me and my kids…

§ Dinner time no later than 7 pm…it usually keeps moving between 6-7 depending on Isha congregation time at the mosque in our area …but no later than 7:00

All meal times are a family time…we eat together, Alhamdulillah

Everyone is to pray at jamaat time…when boys head to mosque, my daughter and i say our prayers at that time…no delays, please!

KKF January 10, 2012, 2:37pm 15

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even in summer? i assume the sun sets after 9 pm in ‘Deutschland’…before 'Ishaa prayers even? i’m a bit confused!..why so early to bed?

stoppit January 10, 2012, 3:20pm 16

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Dinner is always together at the table at my parent's house too.

No shoes in the house and chappal for the kitchen/bathroom only.

Hmm.. ever since we were small it was make your own beds and iron your own clothes. So clothes are washed, dried and put away and you iron them before you wear them. So every evening everyone would be iron their clothes for the next morning. And on the weekend it would be one person's job to iron enough shirts for our dad for for the week.

Afia January 10, 2012, 4:43pm 17

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We moved to Pakistan around 3 years ago :)
In summers the last thing we do before going to bed is Isha....
n when we visit my hubby in EU, there too we go to bed after maghrib n wake up again after midnight to pray isha n fajar as there's not much time between the two ...:)

STA January 10, 2012, 4:54pm 18

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separate prayer room and obviously it is clean. we also do jamat in home.
dinner, breakfast and sham ki chai, we do together
home is always clean. you can come anytime and you will not find any dirt.

My home is manged by guys, so we dont have such eating rule. you can eat even in the middle of night if you are feeling hungry.

KKF January 10, 2012, 5:00pm 19

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**oh i see...now, that makes sense.

in EU, waking up in the middle of night to offer Isha prayer isn't a hard thing to do? it's an interesting alternative...you guys, i guess, must be healthy, wealthy and wise because "early to bed and early to rise makes you that" :)**

Afia January 11, 2012, 5:11am 20

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well, it is a bit hard but better than staying up for too long and risking missing fajar…
hehe…not sure about healthy wealthy n wise though as this rule is not really quite old…strictly applies to bacha party…us adults can skip it if necessary…:carebear:
Despite my wish to follow this routine, I often end up having 3-5 hours of sleep in a day… I’m however working on it