Do mums tell their daughter about stuff?
stuff:
How to keep a husband happy.(NOT IN PHYSICAL MANNER but CHARMS/cooking and stuff)
Its time!!!(see below)
Longer version:
Many year ago my father spoke to me. And told me he wanted me to consider one of my cousin for marriage.
I said “abu meeny usko khabi eesi nazar sy nsaheen dekha”(I never looked at her that way)
Father smiled(a big one) and said “to ab dekh lo”(Look at her “that way” now)
My jaw dropped at the floor!! I mean parents work hard all their life to suppress our romantic/S-ual feelings.
And of sudden he said “to ab dekh lo”
He knew those those feeling were part of me and they needed to fulfilled.
I assume for women its more like,
1-how to look good for a guy.
2- How to make sure he picks you for marriage.
3- And how to have you around after marriage.(keeping him happy)
hmm yah ur rite, i guess parents were once young so thats y wen they feel their children hav reached a certain age and it is alright to talk to them about such matters they do so,. right?
If your mom is your friend you can disscuss anything with her before marriage.Like how your prince charming will be or if you have a recent crush on some guy.Or what to shop for your marriage or how you will behave after marriage.And I think moms suggestions increase after marriage in every single matter. But it depends on you that after marriage how much information you want to give to your parents.
PS .It is good if you are friends with your mommy it helps a lot.
these days moms should educate their kids on n off abt stuff. these r no more days where u hide stuff or don't educate ur kids. either gals or boys they both should be given proper understanding of sex, relations, puberty etc
From what I've seen, it's more casual between moms and daughters - even between sisters... than between dads and sons or brothers - the latter is just non-imaginable to me though. Overall, there's more awkwardness between guys who talk about these things.
hmmmm what for those who dont have both ? or either of them ?
GB I know exactly what you mean. I can go for 2 days on effect of having no parents.
But I only want to one thing which you can remember for the rest of your life.
**
About your love-life/prospects; Do not take advice from single people EVER!!**
Always ask happily married ladies OR guys(if you cant speak to women)
Taking advice from single people is inviting disaster.
With out parents luv and life could be rough/interesting ride/journey. Make sure you enjoy it.
Even when suffering; don't forget to have a position as audien/observer of your own life.
Its fun!!
From what I've seen, it's more casual between moms and daughters - even between sisters... than between dads and sons or brothers - the latter is just non-imaginable to me though. Overall, there's more awkwardness between guys who talk about these things.
But it depends on you that after marriage how much information you want to give to your parents.