X2, SINGLE men. Don't me offended. YOU are a great catch, but YOU are already taken.
The rest of the guys out there who are single are either good catches and are being worked on at the moment to be taken, OR they're not worth taking. I'm not the only one who thinks so - plenty of girls here will agree that the good pakistani men out there are scanty.
or they're gay sigh
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X2, you're not 75% single. You're like on a leash.
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It's already been answered so many times elsewhere.
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ahhh..very interesting.
but then this thread itself is nothing new itself and same has been said and asked so many times elsewhere :)
I am 75% single!!! anyhoo, I dont think good pakistani men are in short supply.
funny thing is i hear guys say the same about girls..
when girls and guys complain that they cant find someone suitable, i am left wondering what is it that they are doing, why is it that in teh same city, same community, some find good matches from within the community and some dont.
Its true that after a certain age, the number of available people decreases significantly and those who are available are not considered the best catches based on whatever the demands are, looks, money, background, personality etc, or those who are focused on career or something.
I dont think it is that bad unless someone is looking for great single guys in 40s or great single girls in mid 30s, because majority get married before then, so candidate pool is limited to begin with
I don't doubt that there are good guys here....but it seems like the few who are "good catches" don't seem to like women from here at all and wud rather find their mate in pakistan.
likewise i know girls who are just way too picky.
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Whats wrong is that you are spending too much time in Life1.
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I know. Really crazy cases come here. Its like going to a hospital and thinking, everyone out there has TB so you get scared to breathe. :(
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PCG- i think you should expand your horizons..in your field, it has somethign to do with medicine or research, and just do genetic engineering to create the perfect man,
PS1: also include procedure to come up from cryogenic freezing and then go for it for 20-some years
PS2: make sure that dude likes you, it would suck if you go through all the effort with genetic research, manipulation and creating the perfect dude, freeze yourself for decades, and then hear something like "..its not you, its me..you derserve better..lets be friends"
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^^ PS3: OR Adopt a fella , raise him upto your notions and standard .. wait , untill he reaches his 30 and then dump you for being an old grumpy granny :)
PS2: make sure that dude likes you, it would suck if you go through all the effort with genetic research, manipulation and creating the perfect dude, freeze yourself for decades, and then hear something like "..its not you, its me..you derserve better..lets be friends"
That's too funny.
But having thought about it.....things change...people change....what if he starts off liking you and then decides he doesn't anymore.....
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yep, the first time I heard somene fell out of love with someone, my jaw dropped, but I suppose that is the way things are.
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Too much ganging up on PCG...... thats harsh and mean.
There are a lot of muslim men out there (may or may not be of Pakistani origin) who may be like what she would like her ideal husband to be..... InshaAllah, she'll find her soulmate.
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O yea soulmate :) U know what ? where you feel nauseous and tingly all over. Than you are either in love or having smallpox.
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X2, I’m not asking for a lot. I’m asking for someone to be a decent human being. Someone to hold it in his pants until AFTER marriage. Someone who knows who he is as a person, and doesn’t need his mom to direct his every move. Someone who is balanced in religion, as oppose to excess in either direction. And someone who I can have a good time with and travel and share my work experiences with. Someone I can have a conversation with, and who has goals in life and is educated.
Really not asking for too much. 
But many Pakistani men do not fit this bill AT ALL.
PCG
u know I am just joking :)
Look, very sincerely, I think I have said this before there are plenty of guys who meet your requirements, why you are not meeting them is the question you have to focus on.
Looking in the wrong places, wrong approaches etc may be something you have to consider.
I know more decent Pakistani guys who meet all your criteria than not. But since they are all in my age group, they have been married for a bit, however even when they were single there were girls complaining in that time that they could not find good Pakistani guys.
I would encourage you to have a more positive attitude about it, give people benefit of doubt, and most importantly evaluate where and how are you meeting the guys now, and what you can do to change that.
In Palestine, its considered normal to blow yourself up. Is relativity really an acceptable theory?
er WHOA!
racist.
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btw. i hate men too. i hate them since wednesday.
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U will in luv with them on Friday... they are so adorable little creatures oaink oaink
