and then wives become mothers and raise another A hole Pakistani male. Why cant they raise a good son, why cant they teach the son to follow a balanced relationship. Mothers of newly married paki guys behave such as the bride is taking something that was their right, yuckingly that involves intimacy. They just cant see their son getting lovey dovey with his own wife.
I absolutely agree TLK. This God-darn cycle has to stop.
Girls these days need to get it through their heads that they can no longer act like jaahil idiots. We have many of such girls here too in Miami. Lots of them in fact. They'll be class A MIL's.
But our "CULTURE" gives so much power to men. So why can't they just stand up to the women in their families and tell them to shut up or f' off?
The other day my mom said something really sleeze-bucketish about his niece. Really mean. Even I admonished her. He hasn't spoken to her for like 3 days. When his mom or sister does something stupid, he confronts them also.
You see this is why my Dad can't find me rishtas. No one wants him as their FIL. He just tells it like it is.