What is with all the boys??

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haan blkul :hugz:

boys are ikky

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so y do they not hear the stuff that they are not inerested in and act like they have a hearing problem or simply they are too seedhay to have understood what was said..

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Hina I can asnwer this question cause I am guilty of doing that very often

Guys can do multi taksing but they are bad in multi processing.

Plus, it takes them some time to shift theri focus, maybe 15-20 seconds

So it does happen that my wife asked me something, at that time I might be watching TV or simply thinking of something. Now by the time I shifted my focus to her, her statement was complete and I was like what was that honey.

or she was like "you did not listen to me at all"

Now I am not saying that she is wrong, what I am saying that Male brain can't shift focus that rapidly. That is our weekness.

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I disagree. I think they are both synonymous. Guys can only do one thing at a time. It may seem like we're doing everything at the same time, like chatting with multiple people, waching TV, eating food etc. but we're switching our focus to the next thing. The shift delay that you mentioned may actually be compensated by the technology called "thinking ahead" (this has lately been introduced in some web browsers :)) and can be reduced to a great extent.

Females on the other hand are the true multi-taskers. The can drive, talk on the phone, apply makeup etc, all at the same time. The processing hightens or lessens for the various tasks depending on where more processing is needed, but none-the-less they really are doing everything altogether.

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Me angry, no no, we had a coating of snow all over, shovelled snow which is a zen experience for me. not angry at all.

4 kids, 2 with us, 2 with god.

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thand, I went for lunch :)
aurat mard say hazar guna achi hoti hai, I agree 100%
thats why I never check dudes out.

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They are not synonymous. One is physical like lifting a table and putting on shoes at the same time, the other is mental like listening to someone and writing a software code simoultaneously

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I wish your wife could read you admitting to this. She will surely be happy. Why don’t you surprise her with :sheen:…or whatever she likes…

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Sameenji, Please talk with respect. You don't have to use oye and stuff. You can convey your message in a more respectable manner. :)

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I agree 100%, and you have to try, it takes effort, effort which is needed, desired and more than worth it, but you cant live in the past and recreate it. an honest effort is required to live in the present, cherish the past, show each other what they mean to each other in the present, look forward to the future. surprising with small gestures and things is good. its small things that show you care, like begum hearing me complain that I miss Uk and I miss my fav soda lilt and I cant get good clotted creme, and her scouring the internet and ordering it for me, or when I heard that she was in the mood for toblerone, and a few days later i picked it up for her. One simply cant say that due to responsibilities, you can no longer have time for one another only, at the same time.

small sincere things...being thoughtful, thats what its about.

when i look at the ex of my pal who was looking for some bollywood movie love, i just shake myhand and wonder why some ppl can be so immature.

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And by the way, AWWWWWW, such nice little gestures. ANd AWWWWWW to the fact that you wrote a song for her. Bet it is engraved in her heart. Good luck to you two. AWWWWWWWW.

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X2 is reminding me of Apu in that episode where all the men in the town turned against him because he promised to shower his wife with gifts for 7 days for V-Day (first being a poem published in the newspaper) which made them look bad :(

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please put the mango slushie down and pay.
yeah i am a born romantic.

sometimes even I miss the old me. but sometimes life slaps you around and a sense of innocence is gone forever.

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They're both physical :)

Another word to add to your rant, "spontaneity", like whispering sweet nothings in her ear while passing her by at a party or giving her hand a squeeze when u accidentally touch. Things like that is what keeps the flame alive (a little).

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^ I am slightly less gentlemanly than that :)

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i so agree to what has been said here .................... oh wait .. i wrote this ..

but .. what the point is that not everyone is same ...... same with the girls .. not all are bad ... there are who are really different and then theres some ..who if if you were to jump off a bridge .. they d still ask for more .......

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na na, tried that. bad consequences. it was some other gril dressed like her.

Amazingly I got a smile in return :konfused:

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Thappar nahin mila? Chupao nahin!
:cb:

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amazingly?
hmmmm chalo maan letay hain

haaan ab kehtay , as usual I got a smile in return toh phir alag baat hoti. challo koi baat naheen.

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thappar was part of tne scene

Us nay smile dee, phir apnay donon haathon say thappar apnay gaaloN main maartay hoo’ay bolee

hai allah, kitan woh hain aap

:smiley:

amazingly srif smile mili

usually I get a note with her phone number

:smiley:

chalo ub thoree dair baad aa kar khud hee apnee off topic flooding ko clean kerna paRay gaa