Re: What is with all the boys??
Here's something I heard a long time ago:
65% of the men cheat in Americas...
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The rest cheat in Asia, Europe, Africa and Australia
good ...tum mere saath rehna tofibaba...aur kuch bolo..
zobia chanda bolo,per mere saath...:)
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So Tofi…where do u live …:halo:
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good ...tum mere saath rehna tofibaba...aur kuch bolo..
zobia chanda bolo,per mere saath...:)
ms, would you care to share your educational back ground? :)
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I live in antartica ;)
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Waisay some of the things that you defined are not very far form the truth, like not being romantic to wives as they were to her when she was the girlfriend.
lets address this issue, it simply can not be the same, it cant be, it is impossible. I am not talking about its not possible to be romantic, but its not possible to do the exact same things, spend the exact same time etc.
several factors, u grow older, and your preferences of what u consider romantic change, the time that you have available changes.
Before we got married, I wrote a song for begum, to music that a good pal had written, I performed it at a show. now if she wants me to do another song, I have to find someone who I can sit with and try and work with melodies, and which show would I perform at now? I have not performed at a show in a decade, I moved on. If she were to expect something like that it would be unreasonable. luckily she does not.
This is an example, so being romantic is shown in different ways. even what we were able to do as a married couple a few years ago is very tough now because of kids, we cant just jump on a plane and go away, its tougher on us, its even tougher on kids. everything requires more planning so the spontaneity is reduced it simply is not possible.
As I see a friend of mine struggle with his divorce whose wife was more than happy to buy designer items, have a maid, take expensive vacations, drive expensive cars that his job paid for, a job for which he had to travel several days a week out of town and work long hours. In her bollywood mind, they needed to be like her heroine in the movies, well in the end she hooked up with some dude at work and eventually got caught. her complaint, husband was not romantic..well u took 3 vacations in one year, and then a handful of weekend getaways..he bends over backwards for you, anything u want he gets. takes u out every weekend, what is it that u want. I am so glad he kicked her punk ass to teh pavement.
so ladies, while there may be men who stop being romantic, and in some cases the overt expression of romance decreases, but focus on quality vs quantity would help, also being realistic will help.
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kyon?
are you hiring her to edit your college? not that you need any educational background for that 
so did you feel any difference now that the ozone hole has started shrinking?
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lets address this issue, it simply can not be the same, it cant be, it is impossible. I am not talking about its not possible to be romantic, but its not possible to do the exact same things, spend the exact same time etc.
several factors, u grow older, and your preferences of what u consider romantic change, the time that you have available changes.
Before we got married, I wrote a song for begum, to music that a good pal had written, I performed it at a show. now if she wants me to do another song, I have to find someone who I can sit with and try and work with melodies, and which show would I perform at now? I have not performed at a show in a decade, I moved on. If she were to expect something like that it would be unreasonable. luckily she does not.
This is an example, so being romantic is shown in different ways. even what we were able to do as a married couple a few years ago is very tough now because of kids, we cant just jump on a plane and go away, its tougher on us, its even tougher on kids. everything requires more planning so the spontaneity is reduced it simply is not possible.
As I see a friend of mine struggle with his divorce whose wife was more than happy to buy designer items, have a maid, take expensive vacations, drive expensive cars that his job paid for, a job for which he had to travel several days a week out of town and work long hours. In her bollywood mind, they needed to be like her heroine in the movies, well in the end she hooked up with some dude at work and eventually got caught. her complaint, husband was not romantic..well u took 3 vacations in one year, and then a handful of weekend getaways..he bends over backwards for you, anything u want he gets. takes u out every weekend, what is it that u want. I am so glad he kicked her punk ass to teh pavement.
so ladies, while there may be men who stop being romantic, and in some cases the overt expression of romance decreases, but focus on quality vs quantity would help, also being realistic will help.
Really...angry old man...
yeh batao tumhare kitne bache hain??
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so did you feel any difference now that the ozone hole has started shrinking?
Yeah mon, now i can go swimming
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I live in antartica ;)
so what do u do to keep warm ?
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I light fires, almost burnt a few ppl with them.
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hope u din't get burnt in the process.....
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Yeah mon, now i can go swimming
tofibaba aap k jokes bohot ache hote hain...really
:)
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hope u din't get burnt in the process.....
People usually do what they're good at. What do u do?
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People usually do what they're good at. What do u do?
tofibaba kuch acha bolo...plz
aur X2 kya hoa...??thand par gai ...
waise saachi main aurat mard se hazar guna achi hoti hai...haan
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tofibaba kuch acha bolo...plz
aur X2 kya hoa...??thand par gai ... waise saachi main aurat mard se hazar guna achi hoti hai...haan
ama yaar, thora tho kum karo!!
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ama yaar, thora tho kum karo!!
nahiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii tofibaba naiii........apna hi sika khuta nikla to kisi aur se kya gila?Kash yeh hone se pehle zameen phat jati aur tum andar ghoos jate.....
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Tofibaba,X2 ,TLK, chacha _ghalib,zobia, sheyn...
sorry agar mazak main kuch ghalat bola ho....
Man Woman ,dono hain to duniya hai...
Hum sab ache hain....yes:)
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Khud hi haar maan li, wah bhaiyee
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lets address this issue, it simply can not be the same, it cant be, it is impossible. I am not talking about its not possible to be romantic, but its not possible to do the exact same things, spend the exact same time etc.
several factors, u grow older, and your preferences of what u consider romantic change, the time that you have available changes.
Before we got married, I wrote a song for begum, to music that a good pal had written, I performed it at a show. now if she wants me to do another song, I have to find someone who I can sit with and try and work with melodies, and which show would I perform at now? I have not performed at a show in a decade, I moved on. If she were to expect something like that it would be unreasonable. luckily she does not.
This is an example, so being romantic is shown in different ways. even what we were able to do as a married couple a few years ago is very tough now because of kids, we cant just jump on a plane and go away, its tougher on us, its even tougher on kids. everything requires more planning so the spontaneity is reduced it simply is not possible.
As I see a friend of mine struggle with his divorce whose wife was more than happy to buy designer items, have a maid, take expensive vacations, drive expensive cars that his job paid for, a job for which he had to travel several days a week out of town and work long hours. In her bollywood mind, they needed to be like her heroine in the movies, well in the end she hooked up with some dude at work and eventually got caught. her complaint, husband was not romantic..well u took 3 vacations in one year, and then a handful of weekend getaways..he bends over backwards for you, anything u want he gets. takes u out every weekend, what is it that u want. I am so glad he kicked her punk ass to teh pavement.
so ladies, while there may be men who stop being romantic, and in some cases the overt expression of romance decreases, but focus on quality vs quantity would help, also being realistic will help.
Phew, big quote. Still learning to edit to only what I need.
You are absolutely right X2. With time you get greater responsibility, kids come into the picture, you don't have that much freedom either, with them around, basically, real life kicks in.
But I believe that inside all of us is the desire to feel young again and go through some moments and gestures of romance again. As long as we continue to strive toward that as a couple, take out time once in a while for each other, and from time to time remind each other or suprise each other with the QUALITY of our committment and love, we should be fine. Yes, quantity may be reduced because of the above mentioned factors. But we should be mature enough to realize that.
