Re: What is with all the boys??
They are not synonymous. One is physical like lifting a table and putting on shoes at the same time, the other is mental like listening to someone and writing a software code simoultaneously
They're both physical :)
I agree 100%, and you have to try, it takes effort, effort which is needed, desired and more than worth it, but you cant live in the past and recreate it. an honest effort is required to live in the present, cherish the past, show each other what they mean to each other in the present, look forward to the future. surprising with small gestures and things is good. its small things that show you care, like begum hearing me complain that I miss Uk and I miss my fav soda lilt and I cant get good clotted creme, and her scouring the internet and ordering it for me, or when I heard that she was in the mood for toblerone, and a few days later i picked it up for her. One simply cant say that due to responsibilities, you can no longer have time for one another only, at the same time.
small sincere things...being thoughtful, thats what its about.
when i look at the ex of my pal who was looking for some bollywood movie love, i just shake myhand and wonder why some ppl can be so immature.
Another word to add to your rant, "spontaneity", like whispering sweet nothings in her ear while passing her by at a party or giving her hand a squeeze when u accidentally touch. Things like that is what keeps the flame alive (a little).