Re: What is with all the boys??
Phew, big quote. Still learning to edit to only what I need. You are absolutely right X2. With time you get greater responsibility, kids come into the picture, you don't have that much freedom either, with them around, basically, real life kicks in.
But I believe that inside all of us is the desire to feel young again and go through some moments and gestures of romance again. As long as we continue to strive toward that as a couple, take out time once in a while for each other, and from time to time remind each other or suprise each other with the QUALITY of our committment and love, we should be fine. Yes, quantity may be reduced because of the above mentioned factors. But we should be mature enough to realize that.
I agree 100%, and you have to try, it takes effort, effort which is needed, desired and more than worth it, but you cant live in the past and recreate it. an honest effort is required to live in the present, cherish the past, show each other what they mean to each other in the present, look forward to the future. surprising with small gestures and things is good. its small things that show you care, like begum hearing me complain that I miss Uk and I miss my fav soda lilt and I cant get good clotted creme, and her scouring the internet and ordering it for me, or when I heard that she was in the mood for toblerone, and a few days later i picked it up for her. One simply cant say that due to responsibilities, you can no longer have time for one another only, at the same time.
small sincere things...being thoughtful, thats what its about.
when i look at the ex of my pal who was looking for some bollywood movie love, i just shake myhand and wonder why some ppl can be so immature.