I waz thinking about the MIL / DIL issues on GS - and I think most here make MIL to be the evil person. Maybe it’s because none at GS are of MIL’s age to relate things to…
I have also seen some of the suggestions given are so mean.
Seriously, GS gals is this how you guys really perceive MIL’s to be?
I am just puzzled with so much hate towards MIL.
Are there really no nice MIL’s?
Why are DIL’s entering marriages with the first though of crushing MIL?
Why can’t MIL and DIL be friends?
—please start a saas bahu thread all over again - hehe - come on give me your stories! =)
I don't think anyone enters their marriage with the intention of hating their MIL or making her look evil.
I could be wrong, but it seems lots of the women going through these MIL problems are in Pakistan, where the mentality is so different. Like I said, I could be wrong, but I have noticed quite a few of them from there.
One of my friend comes up with the nastiest ways of harassing. I should not judge her, because I do not know their entire situation. However, there is a lot of poison... and that poison - kinda rubs on you when you hear about their situation.
Personally, I do not see anything wrong or evil bout her MIL. However, it's my friend who hates her to death.
I think the "devil" SIL is always the troublemaker between the MIL and DIL. Mostly MIL's are normal with their DIL's but the SIL's will never let them live their lifes in peace!
A MIL will always say that her daughter is correct..and DIL is always wrong!!!!!
I think the "devil" SIL is always the troublemaker between the MIL and DIL. Mostly MIL's are normal with their DIL's but the SIL's will never let them live their lifes in peace!
A MIL will always say that her daughter is correct..and DIL is always wrong!!!!!
Wow, what a generalization!! Then there are DIL who just look for trouble, and due to insecurity try everything in their might n power to seperate hubby from his family altogether thru lying/drama...etc
I think in discussion forums, you hear lots about the troublesome relationships and not much about the really good ones. Why post when evverything is peachy? THe only result then is that you get beat up for having a nice life lol!
I'm quite sure that there are any number of lovely relationshups here, we just only hear of problems that need suggestions to resolve or problems where someone just needs to vent.
Me? I love my inlaws. As much as my birth family or perhaps even more because they gave me such a princely prince of a husband. Yet if i went on and on about this as I'd really like to do, you'd all puke and make fun of me. Y'all wanna hear more dirt and gossipy bad shtuff yeah?
I think the "devil" SIL is always the troublemaker between the MIL and DIL. Mostly MIL's are normal with their DIL's but the SIL's will never let them live their lifes in peace!
A MIL will always say that her daughter is correct..and DIL is always wrong!!!!!
I think in discussion forums, you hear lots about the troublesome relationships and not much about the really good ones. Why post when evverything is peachy? THe only result then is that you get beat up for having a nice life lol!
I'm quite sure that there are any number of lovely relationshups here, we just only hear of problems that need suggestions to resolve or problems where someone just needs to vent.
Me? I love my inlaws. As much as my birth family or perhaps even more because they gave me such a princely prince of a husband. Yet if i went on and on about this as I'd really like to do, you'd all puke and make fun of me. Y'all wanna hear more dirt and gossipy bad shtuff yeah?
if that's the case (of people only posting problematic situations) then THANK GOD that not all think their MIL is soooooo evil!
I think we need more "nice" posts too to balance the evilness out.
For a while I had been reading many MIL's evil posts and it was getting to me. I was thinking about it more often, and getting more poisonous <=== seriously. I mean why should I bring in "other" people's poison in my life? rt? but after so many bad posts on MIL - it seemed that ALL MIL's were evil and up to no good =( - which is far from truth.
I think we should have a day dedicated to MIL / DIL.
It should be an Observed HOLIDAY. IT should be called M/D-IL day!
^ i think one should be dedicated to SIL’s as well :k:
im a DIL and a SIL and i have SILs.. two of them infact. And really… they dont do anythign different to what a sister would do.. if they are mean, they are mean like my sister would be… so get over it…
and if a MIL goes la la over her own daughter’s tear… then good on her for having that kinda relationship with her mother/daughter. I’d want my mum to be sensitive to my issues too (if i ever discussed them with her). I am sure if u shed a tear, u’d get the same reaction from ur mum… if not from ur MIL
Yes, its good for mothers to have good relationships with their daughters, but NOT when they lose sight of the WHOLE PICTURE and stop judging the situation fairly. Sometimes the DIL gets in the firing line for upsetting daughter, bcos mother cannot see beyond darling being upset, even if they r crocodile tears. This does happen.
My MIL is quite diplomatic, if there is an upset in the household, she sits all parties down and tells them ALL where they have gone wrong, then they r told to kiss and make-up and move on bcos they are all one big happy family and should live in peace with eachother. (I don’t live with them, unless I’m there on hols, so everyone’s on their best behaviour with me when I visit anyway )
Yes, its good for mothers to have good relationships with their daughters, but NOT when they lose sight of the WHOLE PICTURE and stop judging the situation fairly. Sometimes the DIL gets in the firing line for upsetting daughter, bcos mother cannot see beyond darling being upset, even if they r crocodile tears. This does happen.
My MIL is quite diplomatic, if there is an upset in the household, she sits all parties down and tells them ALL where they have gone wrong, then they r told to kiss and make-up and move on bcos they are all one big happy family and should live in peace with eachother. (I don't live with them, unless I'm there on hols, so everyone's on their best behaviour with me when I visit anyway ;) )
that s good..ur lucky..mashallah khena chahiye ..mashaallah..mashallah..hope it stays this way
Really not nice of you to use that kind of words here!!!
yeah..and you know it is not always bull****..SoEmTimEs If.. the mother is reallyt oo crazy for the daughter and the daughter has some time of vendetta with her bhabhi then that can be dangerous for dil..after all no one perfect..shell make a mistake some time and when she does..that ma-thi duo wont waste any time starting htier drama and sending her ot hell..
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