So there’s muslim women who prefer not to shake hands with the opposite sex and politely take a step back and apologize when such an opportunity arises. But then there are other muslim women who do and that’s alright; it’s a personal choice. But what’s with the men who don’t want their wives to shake hands with the opposite sex but it’s perfectly in order for them to not just shake hands but hug women as well? What is this rubbish?
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you are saying they can not handshake with other men, but hug other women.
What is problem?
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ill shake hands with anything. it's sucha beautiful cultural thing WE, as a species have come up with and passed it along. beautiiiiifull.
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Its called desi hypocrisy. It rhymes too.
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STA, please read my question again 
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I’m saying that why do men want their wives not to shakes hand with other men, but they go ahead and shake hands with other women. How is that justified?
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No, this is not justifiable.
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It's illogical.
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Those men have some kind of problem.
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Like they are confused about the concept ?
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Like they are confused about the *concept *?
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Wrong concept is - it's okay for husband to hug other naa-mehram women but it's not okay for his wife to be hugged by other naa-mehram men. Socially, of course.
The way it should be logically -
If it is not okay for their wives, it should not be okay for them either.
And if it's okay for them, then it should be okay for their wives as well. Since the action is the same.
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but it's not okay for **her **wife to be hugged by other naa-mehram men.
Thats unacceptable at an entirely different spectrum.
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What are you talking about, missy ? Stop changing my words. 
[O and thanks. :)]
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yes it is hypocrisy. And people equate it to be love or just possessiveness
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Except your post to which I’m replying has an edit time which is 3 minutes after Contrarian’s response to your typo …
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I think, if marad is muttaqi, then he should also expect same favor from his wife too. Like if he is not shaking hand with others women, she should also not. But this is not the issue what the OP was discussing.
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I think, if marad is muttaqi, then he should also expect same favor from his wife too. Like if he is not shaking hand with others women, she should also not. But this is not the issue what the OP was discussing.
The muttaqi has no expectation from others ... except from his Lord
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I think, if marad is muttaqi, then he should also expect same favor from his wife too. Like if he is not shaking hand with others women, she should also not. But this is not the issue what the OP was discussing.
That IS what the OP is discussing, I think.
OP, please confirm. :)
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True that.
Of course, he can always divorce the disobedient wifey. Can’t he ? 
