What is the recipe to a successful marriage?

Stardust mentioned the hadith where the Prophet (SAW) is reported to have said that if he could have, he would have ordered women to prostrate themselves before their husbands.

I have my doubts about the veracity of this hadith, but keep in mind that scholars agree that if a hadith and Quran are in contradiction, the Quran trumps.

And there are quite a few places in the Quran where it is clearly stated that the only one who deserves any prostration or reverence is Allah SWT.

Just a thought.