I suggest you to venture out of filmi and cliche'd notions of relationships a little bit. No offense.
You say things about me based on a few posts of mine on GS. I'm not even that much of an active poster here.
expecting a married couple to care and love each other just a tad along with being compatible and have similarities as in religion and language is being filmy? So marriage is only about kids,family...ahh.
What's the meaning of a companion and a life long relationship for you?
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People fall in love; people fall out of love. Marriage is more about stability and permanence ( read kids, family, companionship etc). Then why would you base it on something as ephemeral as love?
A marriage like that is just so sad. It shouldn't be solely based on love but it must exist or develop or else how can you develop companionship. They would be more like roommates than companions. How can you have sex with someone you don't love.
more chance of infidelity happening that way.
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When stability, permanence and family are really important to a woman she can also make an effort to love and be attracted to the man she has ended up with. Allah Mian nay aurat ko boht sabr diya hai. Such is the beauty and power of a "constrained mindset".