Re: What is the obsession with marriage?
My parents dont say anything directly to me anymore. However wat annoys me is that i sumtimes think to myself at night right i'm 20. I've got what 2-4 years left of being with my family. Being free and doing what i like when i like etc.
I know when i hit that age people are not gonna let me jus relax. This is the thing i'm talking about women have to get married to have kids. And all men doesnt matter if their 30-40 will end up with a 22-25 year old Hell even a 18 year old.
Yet us women get put on the shelf just because we've turned 30 or something. Helloo? you can still have a kid at bloody 30. I'm living proof. My mum was 30 when she had me.
I jus wish our culture would jus relax and let GIRLS especially jus chill. Let them be happy in their home let them do what they want. let them go college/uni and finish their education go into their career for 2-3 years.
As soon as a girl finishes her education str8 away shes married. wth was the point going thru tht many years of uni then??
It jus gets to me tht a girl cant even get to 18 without people after her.
Please! 18 to me is still a kid man.