I know there is no right or wrong way and obviously its not going to be easy either - but can anyone share their ideas on the least painful way to end a relationship with a man?
I’d especially appreciate thoughts/ideas from males guppies and even females who have been in similar situation.
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Just tell him that ur a lesbian.
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Hahahahaha....Crazy advice - how can a person say such thing? are you trying to be funny? wuld u do that?
i did ask for the easiest and less painful way...
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i have a question and than i will tell you what to do, what is the reason for ending this relationship?
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** As a guy i don t knwo how to break up with another guy ... hahahaa
But i know how to break up with a girl .....In my case I have just told her clearly tht..*i need to see another woman....u can say tht ...
OR
the other way is ...
the only way to get out of this realationship ...is to wait till he die..
it can be too long time *
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Hiii sanam 
its also really important to know …@ wht stage of relationship u ppl r now …
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Reason being that the guy is married and he had first intended to finish relationship with his wife but has now decided that he can never do that because apparently she will not be able to take it.
The guy is not happy wid his marriage as it was arranged and wants to move on by marrying someone of his choice.
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Basically, relationship is at a dead end - he cannot finish wid his marriage and so we cant move on together - we always thought we would work a way round it - but its not like dat - i now want to take control and just finish things for good as its no point going any further.
Btw, we have had no physical contact - we’re two people who are soo right for each other but because of current situation cannot go any further.
I know he will not end things from his side - so i want to finish things but in a way where its not too painful for him.
Any advice?
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a biggggggggggggggggggggggggg no to this relationship, girl you have a very solid reason to end this relationship just tell him to f*** off coz he is not worth it he tryin to play a double game he is telling you that he is not happy with his first wife fair enough but if he is saying that he can never break this relationship coz she wont be able to take this that means that he care of for her and care is another form of love plsssssssssssssssss leave this guy asap coz he is only using you i am sure you can find a much better person than him and the other thing is that so just dont talk to him and dont answer his calls or any thing and just tell him if he can't leave his wife than try and make that relationship work coz its really easy to make a relationship but its hard to break it but you don't have a choice you will have to tell him that my sincere advise is that just move on and try to forget him, how long do you know him for and where are you from?
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Why the heck did you get involved with a married guy in the first place....Have you no shame ?
Cheating..emotional or physical is a vile vile thing.....
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Thanks for the advice - i have known him for over 6 months - only met him few times - we live in different towns so we only text or email each other - that is all. But, he is a friend more than anything that is why i wanted to end things in a more apt manner...
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Cheating..emotional or physical is a vile vile thing.....
We're not involved the way you think - basically we were good friends for a few months and then realised that we were falling for each other. But problem here is that things will not work out so i dont even want to think of going down the so-called 'cheating' path.
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If he is married and u have finally decided ..wht to do .....thn finish it as soon as possible.....thts all .
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Yeh, but how? cos we're like good friend also - how do i tell him dat i dont feel right wid accepting such relationship now that he has cofnrimed that he cannot finish first relationship?
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You only know him for six months and you dont know how to end a relationship with him, its really simple and easy just don't text him change your number and, does he know where you live? even though if he does it shouldn't make any difference coz he is the one cheating on his wife you are not cheating on any one though you did a wrong thing chating to him at first place but its alright we are human beings and we are tend to make mitakes but i think you should realise that if he can cheat on his wife he can cheat on you too just think a bit coz i think he is only passing time i really hate people when they get married and than realise that they don't love their partner, why cant they think b4 getting married i think just tell him that you don't want to be with him any more coz he is married and you want to move on and i am sure you will solve this problem soon but yeh you will have to be brave coz no matter how new a relationship is its painful to break it but you wil realise later on that you did the right thing :) but yeh tell him b4 ending relationship and tell him to try and sort things up between him and his wife.
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I think that sounds like wat i wanted to hear - i will finally finish all contact with him this weekend - i hope he understands where im coming from and dat we can maybe continue to be simply friends.
Thanks again for ur advice!
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dont keep any contact with him coz if you try to be friends with him he will keep on saying that he loves you and all that kind of things so just forget him and his friendship i am sure you will find some one nice whom you can marry too and lead a good and happy life so just break up all connections with him plsssss take care of your self
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just make love to him about 20 times in one week…he will leave u himself 
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[just make love to him about 20 times in one week…he will leave u himself ]
DISGUSTING 
:no:
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That’s disgusting - how could u cum up wid such ----!?