Guess I spoke a bit too soon 
Sadzzz and diamond made the perfect arguments. If someone wants a lower standard of living, more power to them, likewise if they want a higher standard and are WILLING to work for it, then again more power to them. But to force a lifestyle (whether its simple or working for a “better” one) on someone isn’t very fair at all.
Waise, toh I like this discussion though its veering into a slightly different direction than the original point in the thread…I think I shall split this into a new thread…