Its when you jump of a 30 storey **building for someone and get remebered in **stories when you are dead.
lol... on stories!
Re: What is Love?
^ Love at first sight is rare but possible. At least I think so.
Ive noticed that men and women have different perceptions of love also. The way a man shows love is different. The way a woman loves is different.
^ Love at first sight is rare but possible. At least I think so.
Ive noticed that men and women have different perceptions of love also. The way a man shows love is different. The way a woman loves is different.
When we say love at first sight is possible, we say it after some time when they had chance to grow love.
In many of those situations, where they got together on just love at first sight...they fall apart because of high expectations and demands.
Yes, Indeed. Most men cannot show their love or have different way of showing love.
Women on the other hand are more caring, direct, open and emotional when it comes to love.
I think it is against macho-ism thinking of us (men) to hide it. And very smart women let us (men), keep it hidden despite knowing it....!!
When we say love at first sight is possible, we say it after some time when they had chance to grow love.
In those situation, where they got together on love at first sight....many of them fall apart because of high expectations and demands.
Yes, Indeed. Most men cannot show their love or have different way of showing love.
Women on the other hand are more caring, direct, open and emotional when it comes to love.
I think it is against macho-ism thinking of us (men) to hide it. And very smart women let us (men), keep it hidden despite knowing it....!!
Ive seen some love at first sight couples...still together. :)
But on the other hand, you're right when you say a lot of love marriages fall apart due to unusually high expectations and demands.
Ive noticed men show love by doing things like providing, paying for the bills, taking care of things a woman cannot. They're not very big on being expressive or open about their feelings/emotions. Its not important for them to say I Love You everyday.
Women love by actually talking, expressing, nurturing and actively caring for their men. We want to hear it, see it and feel it.
Ive seen some love at first sight couples...still together. :)
But on the other hand, you're right when you say a lot of love marriages fall apart due to unusually high expectations and demands.
Ive noticed men show love by doing things like providing, paying for the bills, taking care of things a woman cannot. They're not very big on being expressive or open about their feelings/emotions. Its not important for them to say I Love You everyday.
Women love by actually talking, expressing, nurturing and actively caring for their men. We want to hear it, see it and feel it.
Absolutely!
Well, you may be able to see it, feel it but no guarantee that you will hear it...most men are just not so expressive in words.
Actually, many women start questioning and doubting if their men start telling them 'I love you' on regular basis! :)
pyaar dosti hai :jano: 
Absolutely!
Well, you may be able to see it, feel it but no guarantee that you will hear it...most men are just not so expressive in words.
Actually, many women start questioning and doubting if their men start telling them 'I love you' on regular basis! :)
That might be true for some people but it's not in my case. My fiance says "I love you" to me everyday! Since the time we met and it's been 6 years. I have more of a guy personality when it comes to relationships. I find it hard to express my love by doing little things. It really depends on your personality and how you compliment each other.
Absolutely!
Well, you may be able to see it, feel it but no guarantee that you will hear it...most men are just not so expressive in words.
Actually, many women start questioning and doubting if their men start telling them 'I love you' on regular basis! :)
If he does it as a general rule since the beginning, I wont be suspicious. Or because I bothered him so much he finally got into the habit.
But if he starts randomly one day...I will be.
He be in deeeeeeeeeeep twouble!
That might be true for some people but it's not in my case. My fiance says "I love you" to me everyday! Since the time we met and it's been 6 years. I have more of a guy personality when it comes to relationships. I find it hard to express my love by doing little things. It really depends on your personality and how you compliment each other.
You are lucky if he says that everyday.
Hope he stays like that even after marriage. You know what I mean.
And you admit it is a guy personality not to be so expressive. :)
To answer first question:
Yes, same as arranged marriage.
To answer second question:
Love without knowing each other? Door Door Ka Pyaar does not really exist. It is something over-rated or just a myth. ** Love is not something which occurs **at first sight as is written at so many places! Now, with time this may grow on to real love.
Otherwise, it is infatuation and opposite hormonal attraction...like a bull jumping over the 6 feet high fence to get close to cows on other side!
That is why Reha post had wisdom there.
How do you know it doesn't exist?? I'm marrying the guy I fell in love with at first sight so I know it can happen. Just because you believe arranged marriages are better (which is debatable) doesn't mean there is no other way to fall in love and go onto have a successful marriage. People who say arranged marriage is the only guaranteed way of having a good marriage tend to look at things in a very simplistic way imo and even in our religion it's also mentioned that 'there is no better thing for two people who love each other to marry' so if love before marriage doesn't ever exist where does this come from?
Love is what you have left when lust and infatuation have already run their course.
Couldn't have said it better! Love your definition of love Reha :)
Re: What is Love?
LOVE is when you cant stop thinking about that person 24/7.
LOVE is when you want to be with that person 24/7 and the mere thought sends butterflies in your stomach and brings a smile on your face.
LOVE is when you are prepared to give yourself as a whole to that person and give preference to that person only over yourself.
LOVE is when you never feel alone as you are always entangled in the thought of that person and always feel him/her with you.
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Love is what you have left when lust and infatuation have already run their course.
well said........
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*~~~ Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desire ~~~
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i dont really care. overrated trash.
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aww nadz..have u ever been in love? :(
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eww . . . you all girls are so cheesy . 
Love = Kids
More love . . . more kids . . . Okhayyyy .
How do you know it doesn't exist?? I'm marrying the guy I fell in love with at first sight so I know it can happen. Just because you believe arranged marriages are better (which is debatable) doesn't mean there is no other way to fall in love and go onto have a successful marriage. People who say arranged marriage is the only guaranteed way of having a good marriage tend to look at things in a very simplistic way imo and even in our religion it's also mentioned that 'there is no better thing for two people who love each other to marry' so if love before marriage doesn't ever exist where does this come from?
It is not about love marriage or arranged marriage.
Love at first sight does not really exist. One has to know something more than one sight about other person to really fall in love. Lust at first sight may be better term. Other words one can use are physical attraction or infatuation.
Real love grows over time...before or after marriage.