How do you know it doesn’t exist?? I’m marrying the guy I fell in love with at first sight so I know it can happen. Just because you believe arranged marriages are better (which is debatable) doesn’t mean there is no other way to fall in love and go onto have a successful marriage. People who say arranged marriage is the only guaranteed way of having a good marriage tend to look at things in a very simplistic way imo and even in our religion it’s also mentioned that ‘there is no better thing for two people who love each other to marry’ so if love before marriage doesn’t ever exist where does this come from?