Ive seen some love at first sight couples…still together.
But on the other hand, you’re right when you say a lot of love marriages fall apart due to unusually high expectations and demands.
Ive noticed men show love by doing things like providing, paying for the bills, taking care of things a woman cannot. They’re not very big on being expressive or open about their feelings/emotions. Its not important for them to say I Love You everyday.
Women love by actually talking, expressing, nurturing and actively caring for their men. We want to hear it, see it and feel it.