Re: What is haram di kamai?
Than it’s a communication problem , things are not always straight we might have to put effort into it , I am not saying negative about you or your relation but my point is communicate with him about the financial problems and make him understand that a married life has its own challenges and it requires a full fledged commitment to wife and kids , friends are also important but they come later and that his family is not in position to spend unnecessarily on friends !! Be persistent and you can also give him examples from life of prophet PBUH how he took care of matters as a man , it Will surly help him to understand his responsibilities towards house and expenses .