mahool
November 6, 2017, 3:20pm
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Re: What is haram di kamai?
So the title says it all really? What is considered to be haram when making a living?
I ask this as something has been on my mind lately… and I’m not sure if I was to do such a thing it would be haram or not… it’s not exactly simple when my husband is giving me mixed messages…
The thing is, there’s this site I’ve come across, there’s mainly Pakistanis, Bengali’s and Indians on there. It’s a live chat app. You chat to random strangers and they give you gifts in return if they like your shows, these gifts are then exchanged into beans and the beans are turned into real money, there is a girl on there who has made £9000!
Most of the popular lives broadcasts are from girls and the watchers are mainly guys, the girls can do “shows” where they sing or dance for the viewers… there is no nudity allowed and if court your account gets banned however many girls can be seen in skimpy clothes…
Girls from Pakistan mostly cover there face or show only half there face or only there hand and just talk talk talk to random guys picking up calls and talking, many girls are on there for 6-9 hours straight!!!
I showed my husband and he said he doesn’t like it for me but he doesn’t she the girls as doing haram!! 樂 if it’s not haram then why I can’t do it???
Is this a haram living??? He said if I do this then later on I will be embarrassed infront of my children for doing such things… but then I said that he said he thought the girls on there were NOT doing haram…
I don’t wanna do this to chat to guys I wanna do this to make some money… one kushra from Pakistan does a game show thing, I was thinking of doing something similar…
I feel it’s only haram di kamai for me because he doesn’t want me to do it!
Please no judingful comments… thank you.
Hidden question in your post… you are asking if it is okay to earn money like this… Your husband’s embedded values are somehow not in favor…
Though some girls from India and Bangladesh… appear in skimpy clothes… and show live… This may be a turn off… while site still prohibit nudity…
Said website is not paid porn… but its method similar…
You are married.. you have a family… you deliver a baby.. your hormones are not balance… You are in PPD… your financial insecurity is triggered by your new born baby. Take your time… calm down…