I was talking generally not targetting anyones parent. Why members here are assuming i am talking about them? Why can't i share my views without this every ready gang attacking me? Why can't people disagree here in a civil manner? Go ahead give warning if i was at wrong but if you care to read the thread you can see who instigated it. Even then i apologized if she felt (which however makes no sense) that i was blaming dead parents.
I think you might would like to re-read post #7 before blaming me for this.
Just because silly rhymes with your name doesnt mean you have to be it :).
Maybe you have been neglected too much to learn the basic manners and that just affirms my stance on this topic.
Just incase you forgot you typed this.
I didn't judge your parents parenting skills. I was trying (but failed) to point out that you have no right to judge anyones parenting skills due to the lack of your own parenting skills.
Did it hurt when you pushed your bairn out? Is that the reason for the 'lanat' ?
You really think there was a need for this ^?!
I had already posted before this that if you disagree with me its ok but why must you do it this way. Hence my claim that you instigated me to make that comment.
If you were offended by my "lanat" comment you should have said it in a civil manner and i would have edited it, i will do so even now if it offends you people. But putting somebody down to put across your views is not the rite way.
Milly, I don't sit on the fence. I just dislike handing out warnings like mithai. My personal views on the above are the you and ZK are totally off in understanding each other. Yes a little harsh with the lanats ZK but looks like she was passing them out generally not specifically in your case. Then one thing led to another. Then she apologized. But you also, shouldn't have started out with "did it hurt you when they pushed your brains out."
If you really want me hand out warnings, you both will get them. Best is to let go right now.
Milly, I don't sit on the fence. I just dislike handing out warnings like mithai. My personal views on the above are the you and ZK are totally off in understanding each other. Yes a little harsh with the lanats ZK but looks like she was passing them out generally not specifically in your case. Then one thing led to another. Then she apologized. But you also, shouldn't have started out with "did it hurt you when they pushed your brains out."
If you really want me hand out warnings, you both will get them. Best is to let go right now.
Did it hurt when you pushed your bairn out? Is that the reason for the 'lanat' ?
I said 'bairn' not brains. How would she push her 'brains' out?
When did I mention anything about a warning? That was her.
A warning is a natural conclusion of a "personal attack" or "insult" and since you were challenging GS's stance on these, I mentioned the word warning. Anyway, chal chad kuri.
my view:
i think every parent is good! because they always care for their babies....
someone do good grooming someone dont but atleast they try n they fail....
so good parenting is to TRY to take care of ur kids on every aspect of their life....
I don't have a kid and not going to have one yet so what I say is probably irrelevant because its just an outsiders view.
To me a bad parent is those who let their kids cause a muck and not scold them for it, to let them rule the house and give them whatever they want, to think your child is stupid or slow or making excuse for your child. I think thats a bad parent.
I could write a story to go with it but I'm lazy...so maybe next time.
A good parent is those who do not neglect but trust their children enough to know that they will be safe. that they don't have to be supervised 24/7.
a good parent knows how to set boundaries and knows when to support and when to let his/her child make their own mistakes so they can learn.
