What is a girl to do?

I did not want to get in to detail of defining what is necessary and what is not.

I made a general comment that it needs to be looked as on case by case basis.

Yes absolutely it matters to everyone if the health-care is paid for by these people. What is there not to understand?

Like I said it is a big topic…there are so many other issues attached with it.

Agree with your bold part. That is what I said above as well.