What is a girl to do?

[Reha]

@MissTY

If you can afford it and have a good surgeon then go for it. Stop obsessing over haram halal details. Im sure God has other stuff on his mind.

Allah does have a lot of things on his mind, for sure.

But he does tell us to keep haram and halal on our minds…

@midnighteyes

From what I have learnt, plastic surgery isnt allowed, especially for cases to correct something is is “abnormal”. So for example, getting a nose job is a no-no, but if your face gets smashed in and your nose is demented and you need to fix it, then its ok. Or if someone gets burned in a fire and they need skin grafts or reconstruction surgery etc. So I personally dont agree that getting breast implants would be permissible in Islam. An exception could I guess be someone who has breast cancer and has her breasts removed

I find that really sad! A woman is under going serious self esteem issues and depression and the way to make her feel better about herself is to tell her she needs a bigger chest!!! Way to make her feel like a piece of meat and assure her that the only validation she needs to seek is through physical looks. How will having a fuller cup improve her self-esteem, by causing more men to check her out when she walks down the street??? She should join Toast Masters, or get counseling, or volunteer to feed homeless people…getting breast implants to improve self-esteem or depression just sounds sooo horrible to me!!!

Ummmm…where did I say all of these things?

Anyway, its not about PEOPLE making her feel like a piece of meat…its about her own self esteem. SHE feels she needs bigger breasts to feel like a woman. SHE feels self conscious wearing fitted clothes. SHE doesnt want to wear a bathing suit. SHE feels ver self conscious with her husband.

Its not her fault, its what she sees around her in the media that makes her want a fuller figure. Woman = hour glass figure. Believe it or not, looks do play a part in self esteem and confidence. If you have them, you always feel great. If you dont, you will either seek confidence through other things or wont have any.