What is a girl to do?

[diwana]

@X2

dude…they probably were not thrilled with the mastectomy either or dealing with cancer, but you have to do what you need to do to rebuild your life which goes haywire when cancer strikes and part of that is trying to get back to what you were like, because people are cruel and while it may e easy for us to sit here and say oh just do this or do that, I have seen people say cruel things about someone who had lost her hair due to chemo..thats how people are, and how strong do we want cancer patients to be? to deal with the curveball thrown at them, go through radiation, chemo, surgeries and then also be strong and deal with pity, snickering, stares afterwards..easier said than done amigo

and as far as not agreeing or thrilled, I dont think there is really much that you can get unanimous agreeement on.

And I never said they would be thrilled to get any surgery either.

Yes they are the unlucky one and do go through a very tough time no one but themselves could understand.

My point is that those who are divorced/older and not even thinking someone would actually look at them so closely who use this service regularly.

It is those who just want to show off and be admired by people around them who use these services more commonly. This include women who are in showbiz or illegitimate business.

I also mentioned a middle ground where women who really feel the need since they could not get married due to lack of acceptable figure..then that is fine for them to get this surgery done.
So, both extreme exist with a happy medium.