What if your son wants to marry a girl from other religion,?
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you slap him and tell him to go to his room..
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It's really not the end of the world. She's just a person. So long as he is truely happy, que sera sera (what will be will be).
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no big deal. maybe i'll feel different when i'm older...but i don't think it is a big deal.
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i do beat crap outta him :D !!!! lol......
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Depends which other religion.
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she is chirstan,,and i cant slap him cauze he is MASHALAH 21,,,aur waisey bhee iam against child abuse,,she says yes she wants to learn islam,,thats good but,,,,she is not legal here,,and if she is not legal here she cant get her bach degree,,bus yeh sara chaker hai,,iam scared..plz help me
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her crime is not that she's a non-Muslim.. her crime is that she's an illegal immigrant.. I hate them.. sorry.. but I do.. I worked my butt off to get into this country, dot all i's and cross all t's .. and then there are these bozo's who just stroll across the border or sneak in on a boat..
Sure, the little kids they drag along with them have no choice, but by welcoming these families into our own we would be encouraging and emboldening the parents.. I say.. put your foot down and say NO..
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21? the question shouldnt be about who he wants to marry but if he is ready for marriage at all in the first place!
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if she's not legal, the easiest way to end this is to provide the authorities with an anonymous tip off.
The girls gets arrested, deported, you're happy, and the brother will recover after a while. Just make sure that he NEVER EVER finds out that you were behind it all.
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pure evil genius
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we talked t o her,,aur kaha hai kai ager willingly muslim hotee ho tou its fine with us,,u know ajkal kai bachay,,first yr college sa y sat perh rahay hain douno,,theyll graduate in spring INSHALLAH..ALLAH malik hai daikahin kia hota hai,,
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PakiAbroad, you may have had to ‘cross the t’s & dot the i’s’, but she had to cross 'the B, the O, the R, the D, the E & the R, remember, some of these people enter out of desperation, where’s your compassion? where’s the muslim in you? you don’t know what she’s trying o get away from, it’s not here fault she’s smarter than you, forget the paperwork, just cross the border…thats the way!
Married NY - make sure she ain’t marring him just for the green card, if she’s sincere then give them your blessing & **hopefully she’ll get citizenship.
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PakiAbroad, how did you get in? student visa? your just jealous that she might get in & become legal before or in an easier way than you, you should be for any woman who wants a better life no matter how she got in, forget the politics… you sound like one of those minute men, weekend warriors who patrol the mexican border… PakiAbroad, i give you the middle finger salute…
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…they may look like theyr’e telling you off…they ain’t…
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lol.. pahla saal khatem nahi kiya aur miyan jee shaadi kerne chale?... ..
... intezar karo ..college khatem kerne tak yaqeenan woh 3- 4 aur larkiyan bhi aapse mutaa'rif kerwa'ain ge ke main innse shaadi keliye serious hon..
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set some conditions for him like graduate first, get a decent job etc., and then we will get you married to her. By then, he will probably grow up and calm down a little.
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u must be on SPLC's payroll chacha khaan.. i haven't seen anyone defend the illegal's case more vigorously.. don't worry.. we're not gonna deport the chickas.. just the smelly round belly little wetbacks scurrying around waiting on you at Casa de Malos Olores
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jee chacha she told me to get some books on islam..ALLAH SAY DUAGO hoon jo keray behter keray,,zindagee mai koee acha kaam kia nahee ,,ager aik larki islam qabool ker lay tou shayed hamaray lye rah e nijat banjayee,,WELL DECIDE KERNA AHI SUUB AFTER EID..
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Oh…tough situation..
Cause he probably loves her…and thats a very strong feeling..
so he wants to marry her at any cost..
if you like her too then perhaps she can do her bach degree after she marries your son..
But do you like her and do you think she will be good for your son??Thats the main question.
Being a parent is tough..my brother married a girl who converted to Islam..it,s been 12 years and she is the best muslim ever and they had continued their studies..with parents help..and now are secure and happy..with kids..
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It's her legal status that would have me worried. I would be much less concerned about her religious preference since she is showing a strong interest in Islam. Why don't you ask them to wait until your son graduates from college and is able to earn. If you live in New York then it's doubtful that he can afford to get his own place and support a wife as a student anyway. I personally wouldn't allow my son to get married if we were going to be supporting him and his wife. It's just not a responsible situation for a man to be in.
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^ agreed with amana...her legal status needs to be addressed prior to any firm commitment being made...