WHAT IF?

[sweefs]

Re: WHAT IF?

first make sure she changes her religion to islam…ofcourse if she loves him that much she’d do anything for him (heard that line so many times thought i would use it)…and if she agrees to convert then you can surely trust her and you know that she is the one fo rur son

[chacha_khan]

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@PakistaniAbroad

u must be on SPLC’s payroll chacha khaan.. i haven’t seen anyone defend the illegal’s case more vigorously.. don’t worry.. we’re not gonna deport the chickas.. just the smelly round belly little wetbacks scurrying around waiting on you at Casa de Malos Olores

whats the SPLC? hey whats with the name calling, they like to be called mexicans, theyr’e backs may well be wet, but thats from hard work, you should try it sometimes, back to the name calling, what happened? did he call you a smelly paki?..he did, didn’t he…& he wasn’t lying was he?..you forgot to take a shower didn’t ya?..hey…hey

chickas you say,
i just imagine you walking up to one…
she’ll deport herself after that…

[phoenix51]

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@sweet.i.f

first make sure she changes her religion to islam…ofcourse if she loves him that much she’d do anything for him (heard that line so many times thought i would use it)…and if she agrees to convert then you can surely trust her and you know that she is the one fo rur son

She shouldn’t be converting for him…but for Allah swt and for herself…

[aahmed]

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@PakistaniAbroad

u must be on SPLC’s payroll chacha khaan.. i haven’t seen anyone defend the illegal’s case more vigorously.. don’t worry.. we’re not gonna deport the chickas.. just the smelly round belly little wetbacks scurrying around waiting on you at Casa de Malos Olores

WOW PA, I never would have expected this kind of behaviour from someone like you.

[retroguy02]

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ANSWER TO THIS THREAD: throw him on the road after a long meaningful lecture

[muali]

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@PakistaniAbroad

her crime is not that she's a non-Muslim.. her crime is that she's an illegal immigrant.. I hate them.. sorry.. but I do.. I worked my butt off to get into this country, dot all i's and cross all t's .. and then there are these bozo's who just stroll across the border or sneak in on a boat..

Sure, the little kids they drag along with them have no choice, but by welcoming these families into our own we would be encouraging and emboldening the parents.. I say.. put your foot down and say NO..

It is never a good idea to offer help to anybody based on ur personal grudges...
just a thought.

[muali]

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as far as the answer to the thread starter.....
let the grown ppl decide ....if he is old enough to have a girl friend then i'm sure he is old enough to take care of her too..... u dont have to waste ur head for his personal life..... i understand he is ur family but .... hez grown up and he has his own life and decision making power.... respect it and u'll be respected.

[canpaki]

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when i get married…then have kids n then when they grow up…THEN ill think abt it…:halo:

[MARRIED_NY]

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retor,,ANSWER TO THIS THREAD: throw him on the road after a long meaningful lecture,,how can u say that..iam a mother ,koee jalad nahee hoon,,
muali ..muali ho per achay khiyalat hain app kai,,thanks,,

[AQ]

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Assuming that you are a muslim, if the girl is from people of the book, it is allowed.. if she reverts not because of your son but because she finds Islam to be the truthful religion then, that's the best..

regarding, her status.. will your son be able to sponser her?? if so, i dun think that's a big deal.... it worth it a big time....

Marriage is not about status, money and other worldly things anyway

[UZ]

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if she is ready to convert than there should be no problem.

[Mahru]

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i think she just wants to get legal....

[Asif2000]

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@Anwaar Qureshi

Marriage is not about status, money and other worldly things anyway

I am sorry but to some people, its all about status, money and other worldly things. I would be real careful. I have heard too many stories about getting married just for the papers and then out of the marriage in no time. Most of the time though, we, desis are on the other side of the isle, unfortunately.

[MARRIED_NY]

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well they say that they love each other..aur saat zindagee guzarna chahtay hain,,yeah i know kai she is from the people of the book,,BUT the thing is kai abb yeh tou Hai kai they say jesus is son of GOd tou yeh shirk hai na,,per that girl dont believe ,,,aur ALLAH kai lye tou kerna hai zahir see baat hai ,per ofcourse baytay kai kehnay per bhe ekeray gee,,aur ager u skai kehnay per bhee kertee hao tou kia woh is ajar kai layiq nahee,,khair daikhtay hain,,

[Amani06]

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Well i havnt got a son but if my daughter wanted to do that, he'd have to b a convert...plain and simple especially seeing as her father(my hub) is a convert.

[mAd_ScIeNtIsT]

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Report her, deport her

Problem solved.

[MARRIED_NY]

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touba touba aysey nahe kehtay mad kisee kai lyee..bura waqt keh ker nahee ataa na

[parissenoor]

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live and let live

do you wanna be a grandmother? if yes let your son marry, if no, let him be an old boy:p

[farishta2]

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then I'll kick his behind and knock some sense into him. On a more serious note, marriage with a non muslim is not valid. If she converted before marriage, then it would be a different story.

[MARRIED_NY]

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ooh wow really farishta,,,array yeh tou hum ko bhe maloum hai app abb so ker jagay hain,,,
paris ,,ofcourse i wanna be a g mom,,:)

per itne jaldee nahee my baby is only 21 ...