a) That sounds perfect. I’m not a people person anyway, and don’t want to spend an important day of my life fidgeting because a tonne of aunties are trying to nit-pick whatever I choose to do/wear, or people with cell phones taking pictures of me which I wouldn’t be to tell to buzz off. I’d want to be surrounded by my loved ones and that’s enough for me. (Though some photography would be preferred and some really really luxurious chocolate for treats instead of mithaai) I’d feel relaxed, happier and genuinely more in-tuned to the whole procession rather than a Matryoshka doll on the last nerve…that too in the limelight!