Re: What if your wedding is simple??
I’m marrying a non-desi so I won’t be getting that stuff anyway.. I couldn’t care less..
The photography thing wouldn’t bother me either, tbh I think it would be quite good fun if all the guests and relatives took snaps and we made a scrapbook instead..
I would like a nice outfit 
(wouldn’t have to be designer or expensive tho)
Tbh if money was tight I’d rather put it towards a deposit on a house or something practical that would be used long-term rather than blowing all on one big day, can never understand the mentality of having a wedding u can’t really afford by begging family members for money, taking loans all over the place then having to spend the next 5yrs paying it off.. Course some people choose to have a simple wedding just cos that’s their preference and I always think ‘good for them.’