Re: What if you spouse ???
In my opinion, a wife should at least bother to ask her in laws or her husband (whoever she is living with) before going anywhere, obviously if the family is strict no one can even bother asking because they'd know the answer would be no, but if the family is fine with it then at least inform them. A wife on the other hand wants to know where her husband is whenever she talks to him, no matter how apart they are living so why can't the husband ask her...its not like he would tell her not to go ever again. and thats i guess mutual understanding between the husband and wife, they should let each other know whats happening in their respective lives even the minor details can effect their relationship.
but in your case @ the thread starter well you actually talked to her before she went to her parents house so i guess there was no way she could have predicted the future at that time and told you she thinks she might go to her parents house or her brother would be there to pick her up so you can't feel bad about something that happened after you talked to her, she might have told you anyways, and if not then its not a big deal since its her parents house. my mami's go to their parents house every other day and stay there the whole yet my mama's dont mind - its part of life guy dil pay nah lo and if you lose your sleep over it then these things can get serious for no reason...