and the child is biological not yours??
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Would go for a fertility test 
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See chaos theory. its a good movie on somewhat same issue with alot of chaos.
I think the man would be beyond upset.
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but how would you really find out, if you're not already suspecting your wife?
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Irrelevant for me as not a male.. but I can imagine he would be very upset to say the least!!
I think it would deffo affect his relationship with the child. The childs siblings would look at him/her differently too! It would upset the whole family dynamics!
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It might even result in him divorcing his missus...
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Or worse. 
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but how would you really find out, if you're not already suspecting your wife?
I've come across 2 couples in the last year who were going through divorce b/c of this. In both cases, the husband discovered the child wasn't biologically his b/c the child had a medical disease that required surgery. Of course, parents/siblings have the highest odds of being "matched" when there's a need for a kidney, bone marrow, blood etc.
Soooo.....when the dad got tested in order to save "his" child's life....tests came back that he wasn't the biological father at all.
In both cases, the "father's" waited until the medical crisis was over....and then filed for divorce (actually...in 1 of the cases, the husband shares custody of the child...he still wanted to stay involved in the child's life...just didn't want to stay married to the cheating wife).
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If she was honest and told me, I'd like to think I would try to work it out. Who knows...
If she lied and I found out, I'd divorce her ass.
Depending on how old the child was, I'd ask for custody. For example if the child was old enough (4 or 5) and considered me his/her father then I would raise them. If the child was still a baby then I don't know if I would want to be involved.
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I did read an article about this exact same thing (why does this sound so familiar?)...in some cases, the men were still forced to pay child support even though there was proof the kid wasn't his....and in other cases, i think one admitted that once he found out it wasn' this kid, he didn't care about the kid. :(
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and in other cases, i think one admitted that once he found out it wasn' this kid, he didn't care about the kid. :(
Yep...this happens too. And this is the worse case scenario IF the child is old enough to understand. (ie. probably age 5 and up where he/she actually will remember the "dad" as he/she grows up). I know someone who dealt with a case like this where the daughter was around 12. "Dad" was ok with paying child support but never wanted to see the "daughter" again b/c according to him...she was a living reminder of his wife's betrayal. VERY sad case....girl literally ended up in the mental hospital b/c of depression/attempted suicide.
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Such a nonesense thread ... men here are being asked to relate their reaction to their own wives being unfaithful to them ... My response is that if it happened to people edited... not the rest of us have to look forward to it who trust our wives and have wives who have such ghairat to protect themselves even without us having to look over our shoulders ...edited
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Not only this but the rest revolving around same matter are pure nuisance - I feel like them a Badduah - who in his/her right mind would think of such scenarios for fellow human beings ...
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This is the head in the sand ostrich approach.
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and the other threads on the 'subject' were fine?
Did all husbands of the wives who ever cheated did not trust them before that?
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err that's pretty harsh.....I hope you posted the same thing for all the other similar threads that were opened before this one.
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Peace
Regarding the other threads - yes ... I saw them too but either because they came first I guessed that there was a basis for asking those questions other than simply starting up a new topic and then it got ridiculous ... regarding ones own children a parent can try to prepare them as they grow up so there might be something to learn there ... I am not a wife so I would not know how to answer the thread that is meant for them to answer ... this one was meant for husbands and at first I took it jovially ... and thought yes, I'll write something funny, but then I realised that these threads are not really serving a sensible purpose ...
Most of my answers would be I'll cross that bridge when or if I get there ... I'm not saying it does not happen ... but if I say I'll just act normal and carry on with life and be an understanding husband ... am I just saying that to get brownie points on GS? Or would I question what I did wrong that such a thing happened? Or would I blame someone the wife or the other man, or some freak event where through a sequence of events it was found out that some doctor who put her in general anesthetic abused his position or whatever reason ...
If the OP is asking for what I would do ... the first thing I would do is probably try to get to source of how it happened ... then I might or might not worry about who the father is ... I'm sure my wife would not appreciate me doubting her in any way. I would expect the same from her too ... Well in this rant I guess the OP has his answer now ... :)
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Lets try to keep our present and future wives out of this shall we??
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The repercussions of a cheating spouse are far greater for men. He can end up raising a child that wasnt his.
Its like a Man having a child with another woman, bringing it home and telling his wife "This is the baby i had with my mistress, now raise it as your own"