Re: what if ur own kid turns out to be ...
There is nothing anyone can do if kids turn out to be 'strong 'gay lesbian. But there is less chance of them being strong gay lesbians if they are brought up in healthy religious environment.
Not too strict that they rebel. No too open that they try!
Its a psychologic disease and completely identical twins may be opposite in their behavior. One hetero and other homo.
Moreover it does not run in the family as a genetic disease would.
Sky will not fall if a gay told to try to change the attitude. Gays and lesbians just make a big deal about it and being vocal about it so much that it has become a fasion' to consider them 'normal '
Examples of gay men married to women or lesbians marrid to men are there and they still are living happily and raising their 'normal' kids. Its the unusual and psychologically deranged people who just are talked about and people start thinking oh no., poor girl married to a gay man. or poor guy married to a lesbian. (some men may like that anyway-wink)
Its just a matter of blowing out of proportion. Off course she must be told by the man before marriage and he should decide not to even marry a girl if he feels so strongly.
As it is many hetero people lose interest after marriage. They live happily and raise their kids together. Sky still does not fall.