What if he's not a virgin?

[nstar777]

Re: What if he's not a virgin?

@Afridi786

it doesn't matter, girls or guys, they always say their virgins, here lies the dilemma, who's lying and who's telling the truth? (Most likely to find out wedding night, lol a little too late)

Are u sure u can find out even at that time? Modern medicine and reasearch have listed lots of reasons attributable to loosing virginity. So question remains was it sex or somehing else? I guess u will never know unless the person tells u the truth

[Krypton]

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im sorry i wudnt b fine with it

a guy wud never b fine with a grl not being a virgin

[Zabardast]

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:) I like virgin girls... :)

[andy936]

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Now i m thinking that i would never accept my wife if she is not a virgin.... & i expect the same thing from her.... It's hard to start a life if you knows..........all the time you wil be suspecious person & it doesn't smell gud.

[deer]

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i say to each thier own!

if virginity is important to u and u are a virgin then u should have similar expectaions of the guy. ofcourse u the guy best, so i dont think anyone here can tell u what to do. it really just depends on you!!! how important is it that he be a virgin...and what about this other girl...that he had this affair with...were they married? did he just sorta leave her hanging?...i dont know...

And for all those that expect your partner to be a virgin, then they should be virgins themselves either. cant havedouble standards.

i think any guy who is not a virgin and expects women to be one..is badd!!! news and if this guy is like that...u need to stay very far away from him. only b/c such mentality just goes to show how he sees the relationship - that men have rights to do whatver but women dont....and thats wife beater kinda mentality. stay away from such guys

[Bhabi]

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@NaTaLia

Ladies, let’s say you met someone who impressed you in every single way, and they were serious about you and you were planning on getting married. Now a while before the wedding is to take place, you find out that your husband-to-be is not a virgin.
Would you change your mind about him? Would this one thing cause you to drop everything and run in the opposite direction? After all, if you’re saving yourself for marriage, then you have the right to expect the same from your husband to be, don’t you? Or would it not matter to you, since people make mistakes and the past should be left in the past?

what if she is not a virgin???+

[AQ]

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I also like Virginia girls

[Muzna]

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@dutch_paki

The world is not fair, it has never been and it will never be. All we can do is accept that.

No. I disagree. That is not all we can do.
We can always strive to make it fair…make it a better place.
Just because something has been wrong forever doesn’t mean that it needs to continue in that vein.

What is the point of learning and educating ourselves if we become complacent to those injustices that are right before our eyes?

Change begins with me.

[hussain87]

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first of all..no1 is gonna admit infront of some1 he or she ain,t virgin anymore…i won,t mind marrying a girl who isn,t virgin ..i certainly dun care..:o esp when that person regret and show sorrow about what she has done…everybody makes mistakes..why make such a noise when a girl has committed the same sin as do most guys living in western socities??? ..some ppl r so hypocrites…man can go and do **** with every girl who they can find but wud not marry fallow muslimas just cuz they happen to have done some bad things in their past. …

[clubber_lang]

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@NaTaLia

Ladies, let’s say you met someone who impressed you in every single way, and they were serious about you and you were planning on getting married. Now a while before the wedding is to take place, you find out that your husband-to-be is not a virgin.
Would you change your mind about him? Would this one thing cause you to drop everything and run in the opposite direction? After all, if you’re saving yourself for marriage, then you have the right to expect the same from your husband to be, don’t you? Or would it not matter to you, since people make mistakes and the past should be left in the past?

if he was married before then dnt matter or if he sincerely repents and asked for forgiveness from Allah(swt) then you should give him the chance

if he has no remorse and is not fussed abt it then dont marry him

[Sara516]

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@clubber lang

if he was married before then dnt matter or if he sincerely repents and asked for forgiveness from Allah(swt) then you should give him the chance

if he has no remorse and is not fussed abt it then dont marry him

Y would he repent if he was married?

[indelible]

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first. uski saza 100 lashes as per Islam says, cause he commited Zina. Then i am not sure on the ruling of marring a Zani

[Hahahaha]

Re: What if he’s not a virgin?

@NaTaLia

Ladies, let’s say you met someone who impressed you in every single way, and they were serious about you and you were planning on getting married. Now a while before the wedding is to take place, you find out that your husband-to-be is not a virgin.
Would you change your mind about him? Would this one thing cause you to drop everything and run in the opposite direction? After all, if you’re saving yourself for marriage, then you have the right to expect the same from your husband to be, don’t you? Or would it not matter to you, since people make mistakes and the past should be left in the past?

I think its stupid to hold that againts him.. So what if he is not?

[clubber_lang]

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@Sara516

Y would he repent if he was married?

oppz i meant if he was not married n lost hig Virginity…then he shud repent