What if he's not a virgin?

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Re: What if he’s not a virgin?

@NaTaLia

Ladies, let’s say you met someone who impressed you in every single way, and they were serious about you and you were planning on getting married. Now a while before the wedding is to take place, you find out that your husband-to-be is not a virgin.
Would you change your mind about him? Would this one thing cause you to drop everything and run in the opposite direction? After all, if you’re saving yourself for marriage, then you have the right to expect the same from your husband to be, don’t you? Or would it not matter to you, since people make mistakes and the past should be left in the past?

if he was married before then dnt matter or if he sincerely repents and asked for forgiveness from Allah(swt) then you should give him the chance

if he has no remorse and is not fussed abt it then dont marry him