Guys like the one in the hypothetical scenario take this decision away from you.
They are not ALLOWING you to make that decision. As long as you stay with them, you have to leave the job. There is no option of keeping it.
That’s pretty stubborn and narrow-minded, honestly.
And fine, if your dream wife is someone who sits at home and makes you gharam parathay - great - there are a dozen million girls I can introduce you to who will do that for you. Catch is, they do not come with a career you can show off to friends and family to say “Oh, I’m marrying an MD. Now meri wah wah karo”.