For some girls ‘everything we need’ means a guy who amongst other things wouldn’t ask us to give up something that we enjoy and gives us some independence. Fair enough to those who would do it but don’t think it’s fair to imply it’s wrong to turn down a man who wants to make such an important decision that can impact our lives in such a big way.. There have been so many stories of girls on here sticking with husbands who’ve treated them badly in one way or another and they’ve not been able to/willing to leave cos they wouldn’t be able to survive financially (or emotionally) on their own. Any guy who wants a woman to give up her security and something that she feels she enjoys and/or is worthwhile to me isn’t worth marrying..
My mum once asked me would I say ‘no’ to person who asked me to get rid of my dog lol and to some ppl it might seem trivial but seriously what decent man would ask me to do something I didn’t feel comfortable with me or that hurt me?? Just the fact that someone would ask his other half to give up anything she enjoys (as long as it’s not dodgy obviously) would be a warning sign for me..