…Why can’t people stop being rude and stop mocking brides and their weddings? Seriously, mistakes and incidents happen, they could happen at your own wedding too and then someone else would be mocking you. The very person who mocked other people and their weddings. Maybe hurt a few feelings too. Is that all you people have time for? Fazool baatain?
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yes true ur right some time.....some words are rude but usually the questions a bit silly seriously.situations always occurs in different families at the times of wedding.
Every bride will have her big day different to others..so its okay for them for askin others experience.
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Asking for experiences is something different than blatantly mocking how things happened, swearing and all the things I have noticed. Very sad indeed.
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thats nt good ofcourse. who did that aisha?
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Browse through a few of the first page wedding forum threads and you will know.
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ok....
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I have seen it too...just sad that...people have nothing better to do..!
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I agree COCO baji. They don't.
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Well people make up the threads, what are you suppose to do? It wasnt directly at anyone, it was just abit of fun, And reading what people say, makes you avoid them at your own wedding.
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Something which is not right, does not deserve justification in my humble opinion. Hurting peoples feelings, being rude to others is not right, have some common decency for god's sakes. Experiences can be talked about in a composed manner too without the mockery.
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confused erm ok, who hurt whos feelings? and who mocked who?
If were talking about the same thing here, im presume your talking abt the 'tackiest things you've ever seen at a wedding' thread? From what i read was people posting what they experienced, not mocking anyone directly.
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And people dont get peoples sense of humour especially on the internet. And especially us brits humour is completly different to anyone else's.
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I am not talking about just one thread or one isolated incident. I have over the past few months or so have noticed this common trend to do this. Not only in those threads but also in the Bridal Pics thread and more.
And people dont get peoples sense of humour especially on the internet. And especially us brits humour is completly different to anyone else's.
I for one, DO get British humour.
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Everyone who has a British Passport GETS British Humour, innit DubaiWali?
OMG i so agree with this. We all have our own experiences... based on finances, resources, what we thought was best.. etc. I hate people making fun of other brides. Its not funny guys. Everyone wants to look their best on their wedding day. To me, every bride looks good no matter where she got her dress from, her makeup done, her hair done etc. Learn to appreciate others.. I tried to justify one bride's choice for her MUA, I got rude replies.
I can tell you from my own experience, I did not care about anything... from MUA to my dress (MIL did dress, SIL chose MUA), but MA everything turned out stunning. Enjoy your big day however you want to. Don't worry about what others will say!
Erm no Milly.
Ouch, thats me told.
Second guess...
Everybody who uses the phrases 'OH MY DAYS' and 'innit' get Britsh humour.
A very sensible post indeed:k:
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I think with the comments, people's personalities coming across. The way they comment online is exactly how they would in real life. Some people are very blunt and do not try to sugarcoat. This is something some girls will understand or like because they share these qualties but other girls will be completely appalled by. Other people claim they like everything and everything is stunning...even if they don't think so. And others such as mA like Spiral and Dubaiwali truly think everything they see is truly beautiful no matter what and are not lying about it. Everyone is different and come from different backgrounds.
I think it is human nature to analyze and give opinions and state preferences in my opinion. It is unavoidable. That is why you hear people talking even at weddings and definitely afterwards. I'm not saying its right... but i'm saying that it should not be taken personally and instead should be taken with a grain of salt. I mean who are they to you and who cares what their opinion is of you??? As long as you feel great and those around you approve of your look... should one REALLY care what others think??? I dont think so.
When later on GupShup IF my wedding pictures surface and people hate on certain things...well I'm just going to be like eh whatever. Each person has their dislikes and likes so that is what is goign to skew their opinion. What I like and find beautiful isn't what everyone in the rest of the world going to find beautiful ... and that is OK :) Comments of any sort should roll off one's shoulder's if they understand and grasp this concept.
I have made comments about certain behavior I do not like at weddings... i find it appalling and horrifying. And I have seen that there have been MUCh MUCH older threads that go beyond this past month on this topic. And I do realize that these are things that most often out of the brides control.. but that doesn't mean I am going to like it any better. Im not even going to like it when /if it happens at my own wedding!!!!
Another example: in another thread I pointed out that I think gajaray on the day of the shaadi with the jewelery, outfit and everything is too much. I posted a picture of what I meant.. but i also said that the brides look would have been flawless and stunning without it). That said - I had to wear gajaray on my own engagement.. my MIL and SIL made them for me. I wore them... I did not like them... and I am sure that when some people saw my pics that I posted on gupshup and facebook ...they did not like it either. It's personal preference girls.. and that is ok.
Reading some girl's comments on GupShup ... i agree with them. Other's I don't - when this happens I just don't say anything. I don't disagree or anything because it just adds fuel to fire and its like whats the point?