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May 30, 2010, 4:19pm
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I personally think no marriage is perfect.. yes some are very close but I think every marriage has to put a lot of work in it. I have seen many couples that come as being perfect and never fight or argue but it’s completely different when they are alone. So my marriage is a lot of work sometimes.. we both understand that we need to fix things because divorce is not a solution on our table. We argue but we work it out, we do things for each other and above all we respect each other. I think having tolerance of each other privacy and respecting each other’s needs makes married life easier.
Another thing I always tell young girls is not to have high expectations because sometimes setting high expectations causes you to miss on things that you would want to enjoy!
If you’re not fighting (read: disagreeing) with your partner, something is wrong with one or both of you. Fighting/arguing and working it out IS the way it should be, provided you are generally happy with the relationship.