***Ok so everyone keeps going on and on about how difficult things are and how hard it is to cope …and yet they are still in that marriage .So i’m assuming there must be a greater good that’s holding it together !
Share what the positive things are in your marriages and how did you or your partner adjust or adapt to make things work out ?
What makes your marriage work ?***
What would your advice be to a couple starting out ?
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Trust, Care of Feelings, Compromise.
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
my daughter is holding my marriage togther
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Lots of regular hugs :)
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Interesting question I must say. I also wanna know the same before going for anything :)
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Wrinkles, fat tummies. etc etc
I mean who else would want to be with them ewwwwwwwwwwwww
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
paisa paisa paisa aur paisa
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Trust because when it's no longer there even things like care , love or compromise fails.
patience and understanding from BOTH sides.
oh and having separate closets and separate bathrooms has seriously eliminated 90% of the fights that most couples have in their first few years of marriage.
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
strong sense of commitment ....
and a sense of humor .....
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
Sex.
I know everyones thinking it. im just the first to admit it.
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
We talk to each other rather than complaining to others. That's based hugely on trust and respect.
EDIT: Oh, and what Sara said. :D
that’s sweet. i like this answer the best. :k:
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
.....inclination to want to be together.. common goals.... committed to spending a lifetime together, compassion, understanding and COMPROMISE...and COMPROMISE and MORE COMPROMISE.....respect and motivation for making and securing a better life.....Inshallah x
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
not sweating the small stuff and seeing the bigger picture
This. 
Oh, trust and respect as well…
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
sara koi haal naheen
***Ok so everyone keeps going on and on about how difficult things are and how hard it is to cope ........and yet they are still in that marriage .So i'm assuming there must be a greater good that's holding it together !
Share what the positive things are in your marriages and how did you or your partner adjust or adapt to make things work out ?
What makes your marriage work ?***
What would your advice be to a couple starting out ?
What holds the marriage together?
Willingness to be together together no matter what. Its a commitment one should make to him/herself and not to the other spouse that I will never leave this union, no matter what happens.
Re: What Holds your Marriage Together ?
trust and understanding.
Trust, respect for each other, ignore small petty issues and learn to compromise and "ignore" things sometimes....
n yesss.....adding some romance in your lives ;)