What have u suffered at the hands of ur In laws

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@radiant_light

Dont know why people treat others daughters like crap when they too have their own daughters and want the best for their own i.e wanting for their daughter to live separately, their own damads are string puppets of their daughters and yet when it comes to their dils,all they have are rigid rules and plain negative thinking…and top it all a husband who has no backbone to standup for his wife even when shes right but everyone expect her to keep quite and tolerate the abuse ..husband and his family can abuse the girl and her family but when girl tries to show husband and his family their true faces all of them get defensive and start calling the girl badtameez…dont know why ppl married off their sons when hes not capable of fullfiling his responsibilities towards his wife and children…

@diamond321

^ I agree with you radiant light. I too think that why do people get their sons married when they want to pet them for the rest of their life. Why do they destroy someone else’s daughter life ?

Type of inlaws u have mentioned above have khot in their neeyat and they think of everyone else like themselves. They are evil and they think everyone else is evil too. That’s why they start fearing for their sons. They very well know what their own daughters have done and they are afraid of becoming victims themselves too.

They call bahu batameez because truth is bitter , they don’t want to hear that they are doing wrong. They think of themselves as superior because they are larkay walay and they cant be wrong.

You know what I have heard from some ppl, MILs and men (husbands/sons) that Bahu/Wife is always a ghair. The prob lies right here. they never accept her from the day one as their family member. They do not give her her right position at home to begin with. This is sooo low if you ask me. here this woman has left everything for you and your son and there you do not accept her rather always consider her as an outsider. rubbish rubbish and rubbish makes a woman only your son’s bed partner and babies producing machine

When my grand parents died, their children started to discuss the property matters. All of my phupoos and uncles decided to sit in one room and sort out the issues regarding division of property. They had just started when my aunts (chaachi and taiees) also joined to participate in that meeting. There my phupos raised eye-brows and said, “why they are supposed to sit in this family meeting? This is our Personal matter.” Just imagine thanks god one of my uncles said, “accept them now as part of our family. They are not going anywhere, they will sit right here and they are allowed to input their ideas/suggestions.”