she has got 3 kids, 2 gals, 1 boy. her situation is same but she is hell busy with her daily life. she doesnt go any where, just to her mom’s sometimes.
if you see her daughter, mashAllah she is such a cutie, got sooo innocent face, big eyes, long curled eye lashes. she has got that face ki khwa makhwa pyaar aajaey. but she is soooooooooooooooooo quiet, all the time her eyes are looking down as in searching something on the ground. you wont feel her presence if she is with you in one room for whole day. obviously she is growing up in such tensed environment. and knowing my friend F, i guess she most of the time keep them in her room, so they dont make any mess or noise in home for which she will pay later. my heart goes out for her kids. I have not met her son yet, but according to her, he is quiet and a gentleman. not naughty at all.
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Her father is working in Kuwait, he is heart patient and already had 1 or 2 heart attacks. Her mom is BP patient. so many times she has been hospitalized and even in ICU coz her BP shoots up, leaves her unconscious for days. This was from the time when we were studying yet and F would take off from Uni saying that mom is in hospital.
She has two bros, one elder, one younger. younger one is good for nothing, and elder one had spoken to his BIL few times, but he cannot do much. “F” doesnt tell everything to her parents. only tells when things go out of her hands. like the day they closed the door on her.
Her devar is very blatant and someone who puts his foot down on what he wants. He got married lately with the gal of his choice. Decided to live in separate home. took his wife and now living abroad somewhere. but in F’s case living in separate home is like asking for divorce. This was made clear to her on their wedding night. ( i cannot share her first nite stories. coz u gals will run out of this thread screaming. may be name of MARRIAGE will bring shivers in you for weeks.)
so about her devar, when she was 8 months pregnant for the first time, month was june/july, she was standing in kitchen and making rotees for the “tabbar”. devar came and saw her sweating profusely and breathing loudly, coz she was heavy and it was her frist pregnancy and this standing in kitchen for too long was not good for her. he saw her, went in and turned off the stove. Took her by hand and out of kitchen. asked his mother and brother, how did you let bhabi stand in kitchen in this condition? its so hot in there and if i am not wrong then she is standing there from hours." mom said something like mind ur own business and that there is no harm in standing in this condition. hum ne bhi bachay paida kiye hein etc. He didnt agree . told “F” , “bhabi go to your room and take rest. Jiss ne khana khana hoga woh apnay liye khud bana lay ga. yahan koi bhooka nahin marray ga.” she went to her room thanking him in heart. she didnt get anything to eat that nite though.
oh and my god kiya yaad aagiya mujhay. “F” only eats when everyone has finished eating. she eats what is bach kucha. if nothing is bacha kucha, she either remains hungry or eats stale salan and stale rotees form previous day.
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