okay thread ki munasbat se, i will tell u something about one of my very good friends “F”. we both were in same Uni, she was the most nazuk one in our group. very beautiful, long hair, big eyes , very decent, not loud at all, hans mukh and polite etc.
she was proposed to by this guy at her work. she told him that he should talk to her parents. she didnt want to have any affair kind of thing so she straight fwdly told him the right way to approach her . the guy went to her house with family and after usual stuff, in short, they succeeded in achieving their pupose.
After engagement the guy n in laws started showing some of their true colors but like what happens in our homes, chalo koi nahin, shadi k baad theek ho jaey ga. or who is peferct blah blah blah. the guy was liar too, he would give false hopes to F that he truly loves her and she should not give ears to what his mom n sis says etc. F thot chalo at least her hubby is caring n on her side.
After marriage, the guy and the in laws showed their REAL evil faces. MIL has done hajj if i remember correctly. “F” has one nand who is a divorcee with two kids and staying at her mom. these two ladies, MIL and SIL made her life hell soon after marriage. husband only listens to and takes his mother’s side. “F” calls him “maa ka khassam”.
When F was 6-6 1/2 months pregnant, one day she told her hubby that she wanted to see “U”(our other common friend) coz U’s 1st son died within 10 days of birth. hubby said he will let her go if his mother allows 
in short she was given permission with condition that she will come back within an hour. “F” left and obviously it took her more than one hour, actually 3 hrs. to come back. She found her MIL waiting for her. MIL said where were you all this time? F said i told you ammi jee i was at U’s home. sorry i got late but there was so much traffic on the way and one hr. was not possible. MIL said well then you go and stay with your friend, yahan kiya lainay aaiee ho? " She took F from her arm and zabardasti pushed her out from the main door and closed the gate. This all happened right infront of her husband. “F” said she never ever in her life felt soooooo insulted, sooo humiliated. ppl were looking at her, she was with her pregnant belly. didnt know what to do and where to go? she started crying and knocked at the door, pleaded them to open the door. it was getting dark but those curel mIL and hubby didnt open the door. “F” took the taxi and went to her mom’s house. later obviously hubby came, said sorry etc (bast*d) and succeeded to take her back… 
“F” gave birth to her first daughter the very 1st year of marriage cos MIL wanted a grand son asap. Allah ka karna, 1st baby was gal which disappointed the MIL big time. MIL and hubby did some stupid dramay in hospital too. the lady dr. was very angry at them. she told F that next time when u are in labor room, bring ur hubby with u so he can see what woman goes thru when she delivers.
anyway MIL took the baby from “F” and told her, “dont worry about ur daughter. I will take care of her. Tum doosray bachay ki tayaari karo.” … 
“F” was in her chilla (40 days whatever u call that) at that time. She called me and was crying badly… she told me that MIL doesnt allow her to be with her daughter. she hardly sees her baby in whole day. she said we maa and beti miss each other even living in same home. 
Allah ne 2nd baby ussko beta diya. that was i think after 1 and half yr of 1st baby. and then again after 1 n half yr she delivered her 3rd baby, which was gal. She poor gal who was so nazuk among we friends, went thru worst. and sstill going thru.
I didnt mention about her nand but she is a phsycho case, she wants to remarry but no one wants to marry her. she is literally a churail. her kids are teenagers, they hate their mom and prays that she gets married asap or somehow leaves that home. my friend “F” takes care of her nand’s kids too, like school, books, home work, khaana peena, clothes everything she does for them. she says mujhay unn bachon parr tarss aata hai.
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