What have u suffered at the hands of ur In laws

At least, you got that right.

When I see such harsh and mean statements from people who dont try to understand anyone else…just makes me think of how our men are these days. They want their women to be left at their parents’ mercy because they deserve to be treated and tortured.

Totally presumptuous statement. Actually, this thread is full of it. I would also say it is full of hypocrisy.

Sara, I have finally read the thread in detail and I have read the comments I made earlier and I do not see that I made the wrong comments. I did not say that Red Ruby or korn666 have not been wronged, although I strongly believe that conclusions cannot be made unless both sides of the picture are available to you. Anyway, almost all the stories here involved a small number of evil men and a large number of evil women. Evil men in the shape of husbands and evil women in the shape of MIL, SIL, other wives, etc. Most MIL have already passed the age of coming to these forum but if they did believe me you would have heard equally heart wrenching stories about evil DIL and evil MIL. Even Red Ruby’s and korn666’s MIL, SIL and their Sautons will write their stories where an ordinary women will shed stream of tears, like they do watching soaps.

I am an educated married man and have educated married friends and have enough experience and have made enough observations to come to these conclusions. Almost all of you will become the evil that you are facing today. Your DILs will come to such forums to share their angst against you. You will carry the germs. Most desi women have not learned to live is a civilized world. Their instincts still make them become violent when faced with opposition. It is time to make a difference for your own good.