Korn, now I understand how you have managed to survive your marriage.
Before reading your post, I thought ke aisi baatien sirf dramas main hoti hain. Infact, dramas main bhi sirf “hold the guys hand” wala part hota hai, “twist it back so hard” wala part nahi hota hai. Believe it or not, it sounds really funny to me for something like that to happen in real life. I’m still wondering what would be a guy’s reaction to such a thing.
Although I think a woman should not react physically (esp. to her husband), but in your case korn, I think you did the right thing. Sadly, some men do need such a treatment sometimes.