Korn , I know how you feel when he behaves that way ! I have been there , I also just wanted to tell him that "itnay akhen bahar mat nikalo gir jaye gi neehcay " thats how he used to talk with me , anken nikal key , cheek kay as if he is doing some taqreer and sometimes like when jhail women fights "haye haye " like that !
But Korn your husband is nice with his daughters . Wohi dekh kar sabar karlo. Baap bura nahi hai. Kuch to insaaniyat hai us main thats why he didn’t abandoned his daughters and didn’t forget him like they never existed. Allah app ko apkay sabar ka ajar dega Insha Allah 
one thing I tell you that you can never change anyone’s fitrat.