Well I haven’t attended many desi weddings coz of living outside of pakistan almost all my life… but the best wedding that I ever attended was when I was 10 or 11. I had sooooo much fun on that wedding and I still remember it quite well… that whole family had such a good sense of humor and we were on the floor laughing the whole time! Even their mother did a short comedy skit, where she dressed up as a doctor (u can imagine a 200 pound woman in tight trousers n tshirt!) and she was holding a doctor’s bag .. she sat beside an old granny and said “ao maa ji tuwada operation kariye, kere kere purzay jawab de chuke han?” she opened her bag and there were like HUGE knives n blades etc in it 
… and u should have seen the look on the granny’s face!!!
And I remember, the boys got loads of fire works and started lighting the patakhas at the girl’s feet! And all the girls were screaming and shouting n especially one anti was just out of this world!!! She was running here n there screaming her head off, didn’t care where her dupatta was… lol (and the patakhas weren’t dangerous at all, they hardly made a noise!)
To be honest, I think I only enjoyed that wedding because I was only a child…
When u grow up, u start understanding the s**tiness that people cause on weddings.. u start understanding the taunts and the looks… the issues, the complaints… 