Has it ever happen to anyone that you come to a point in your life when you have nothing to live for..., there is no higher goal,ideal objective that you strive for or look forward to achieve...,, that you lose inspiration... lose interests lose a desire to live...,everything you wanted to achieve; you either achieve it or you come to a point that it becomes certain to you that it is unachievable..., that you stop looking forward the next day with anticipation & purpose . The only thing that bothers you is that nothing bothers/matters you any more,
Is it a common experience..., n has anyone come back in life after going through such a phase
The exact goals are unimportant.... What I am referring to are those higher ideals , values & purpose that drives you ..., not being able to achieve my goals that I had referred in an earlier post was only because that is from which I drove my inspiration in life & failures in that realm resulted in the evaporation of passion from my life..., as I reflect its not my failure that I grieve its the loss of purpose that I crave for.
All this time(around 2 years) I have been resisting any professional/external help on this situation.., always resorting to internalizing... & not expressing how I feel. This was the first time I tried to share some of my internal thoughts my conclusion after this is that I was right internalizing . Don't get me wrong most people here have been very kind... , much beyond my expectation.., But I believe nothing anyone (friend or a professional) will tell me that I already dont know.., its a phyciological problem in my head & convolution of my thoughts which only I will have to help myself escape from . Just remember me in your prayers. Thanks everyone for your sincere responses.
You may be good in solving your problem, and seems you want to do that on your own.
However, it seems your goals and not being able to achieve those has a lot to do with it.
Yes it matters what goals are set.
Setting your goals to match your abilities will never make you feel disappointed.
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**If the problem is not having any more goals, since all have already been achieved, then this cannot be true.
There are always something to struggle for.
Or always some new goals to be made to keep going on with life.
Please remember:
Just as there is always something to die for (figuratively speaking), there is always something to live for.