what does this imply..

Lifestyle Relationships
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Man 2 got engaged! Two days later, Man 1 who is the man 2 fiancées brother in law! Via texting

Man 1: how’s life after engagement?

Man 2: it’s complicated!

Man 1: lol true

Man 2: hope for the best!!

Man 1: man lives his all his life on one chance! Hope for the best!!

Man 2 true true!

Man 1: you are not the only one!!

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Can someone please tell me their thoughts on this convo ? What does it imply!

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Both have started feeling the responsibility and the fact that women are not easy to understand :)

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it implies that both men are lighthearted chaps having some cheerful chatting with each other :)

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It means you will lead a miserable life and end up in therapy. Don't read too much into all the innocuous conversations. What are you doing reading their text messages anyways?

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Means you are idiot and you go through your fiances private conversations.

Wait....I don't think I did that right.....

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who are you? In this equation?

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man1 and man2 could be brothers.
the convo
they are saying, welcome to the busybody prying on our conversations

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How did you even get hold of this convo? Because if any of these men had shown you this, he would have explained it for you too.

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Seriously? How hard is it to gather how she got it? She snooped and pried and was a busybody.

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They are not brothers nor m I the fiancée! I think both r saying that they are stuck with their partners.. Man 1 is married to wife who is the sister of Man 2s fiancé!

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i think they are lovers. its kinda obvious. hope that halps.

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Sure if you're looking to cause drama, read it that way. It's not at all what it says.

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Whaaaaa?? Who's wife? I so don't get these long winded rishta jorrs!

And also... ermm I read it as man 2 saying he is having second thoughts about the rishta! if someone asked me how is life after engagement I would say fine... unless it wasn't! Of course, I'm not a man... but kind of risky to make jokes about your fiancee when you've JUST got engaged, isn't it?

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The two men are "hamzulfs", I believe. Or they will be when Man2 is married.

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Op, you may have come across two mothers talking about their children. One will ask the other how the kids are doing and she may say the eldest/youngest/middle one is driving her batty these days or that the relationship is more complicated these days. It's not said with malicious intent nor does it imply a decrease in love or commitment or a desire to sever the relationship. Relationships are not always smooth sailing, nor is life. Both are "complicated" and that's a fact. If you continue to dwell on this, you risk hurting the relationship. If you confront the other person, you will be questioned for your nosiness. It's a lighthearted conversation that can't even be called gossip as there was no attack on anybody's character and nobody in this scenario is a farishta by nature. Better to let it go and work on making life easier or less complicated for you and your partner.

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I m asking cuz m the wife of Man1 and my sister just got engaged to my cousin. My cousin is not related to my husband!

I m just hurt as I came across this text in my hubby. Nadz is right, when someone is engaged, they say they r happy! Not "complicated"!!

My cousin chose my sister. He asked for her first! So why go around saying it's complicated blah blah.. And what is my husband trying to prove by saying your not the only one!

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:rotfl:

Oh my…is this is your thought process than Allah hi khair karray…

Stop snooping around and reading too much into things. Are you honestly going to say that you’ve never had a jovial, tongue-in-cheek convo with a friend/sister/cousin etc about marriage? You’ve never joked with anyone?

I think you’re making a mountain out of a molehill.

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baaji aap ko sharam to nahi ayi meri convo yahan paste kartay.

nnabid.

sounds like light-banter exchange. You are over-thinking about it. Outgrowing nosy-behavior does save one from lots of unnecessary complications in life.

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  1. I see it as two men making an effort to connect with their wives' side of the family.
  2. Learn to take a joke.
  3. Stop making issues out of small things.
  4. Be grateful if this is the biggest thing you have to worry about.
  5. Stop snooping and spying. You want to know about something, talk to the person. Don't twist his words in order to start a fight.
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It all seemed like funny banter to me. Like they like to kid around k maenay yay nahi kiya to beghum blah blah blah karay gi or trying to play the victim in a funny way.