What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage issue

[Deeba1234]

Re: What does past relationship (s) that never worked out got to do with marriage iss

@Iconoclast

Why would it involve lies, going out with someone does not mean being in marriage. And what exactly does a “relationship” mean? **It has no rules or set boundaries like marriage.

And in a typical desi society wouldn’t going out even with 1 or two men involve lies and deception?**

And extrapolating it further, anyone who does not disclose there past to spouse would also be lying and deceiving.

Erm most people in relationships would expect being faithful as a sort of “rule” of their relationship, certainly if it’s meant to be serious.. Another could be not using force during intimacy.. To say there are no rules or boundaries could be considered quite offensive..

As for the second point I think it’s becoming quite common for middle and upper-class parents to be ok with their kids seeing someone when they’re of marriageable age (usually around uni age or later), this is obviously in families where arranged marriages are not seen as the only option..